In the relationship between men and women, girls may be more reserved and passive in the early stage, which boys can understand. However, many men think that after sleeping with a girl, the girl must have accepted him, but they did not expect that the girl would not take the initiative to contact her after sleeping with her. What is the reason? Was she being tricked?

< h2>1. Strong self-esteem

For girls with strong self-esteem, even sleeping with them once does not mean anything. . Moreover, her self-esteem does not allow her to stay sticky with you just because she slept with her. She does not allow you to feel that if she sleeps with you, she must be yours. She wants to retain her only dignity as a girl. In other words, although a girl has slept with you, she is still as reserved and shy as she should be. She still continues to get along with you in the same way as before. She also wants to test whether you are the kind of person who sleeps with you once and then doesn’t stop. Pay attention to her people.

2. She just solves needs

Some girls chat with you or sleep with you. It's just a need when you are lonely. She is not interested in you at all, and naturally she will not think about contacting you after sleeping with you. Such a woman may not be single at all, or she has no plans to leave the single state, and she also attaches too much importance to your chat, so she doesn’t attach much importance to the fact that she has slept with you. You are the only one who is stupidly still asking girls here. Not taking the initiative to contact your psychology after sleeping?

3. She is angry with you

Think about you carefully Did you make her angry? If a girl doesn't take the initiative to contact you after sleeping with her, it may be that she is angry with you and wants to hang out with you for a few days to make you realize your fault. At this time, a man has to be shameless to coax her. Generally, women need care the most at this time. If you behave well, the girl will change her attitude towards you.

4. She feels that you are inappropriate

Maybe your previous contact made the girl very fond of you, so See why she continues to keep in touch with you. But after the girl slept with you, the girl discovered some inappropriate things between you, which made her start to become cold towards you. This is inappropriate. You need to analyze the problem yourself and see if there is any possibility of remedying it. Or maybe you're not getting along with girls when you're having sex? Make your own judgment.

In any case, the mentality of girls not taking the initiative to contact them after sleeping is indeed a bit unreasonable. Logically speaking, the contact should be getting closer and closer, so how can they become more and more distant? In fact, this is still It has to be judged from some of your usual interactions and contact methods. Finally, no matter what the reason is for not contacting girls after sleeping with them, if a girl is prejudiced against you, then try to change the girl's opinion of you. If it is true that the girl no longer has that interest in you, then there is no need to dwell too much. After all, feelings are consensual.


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