Chasing and chatting with girls are common problems faced by male friends, but many people don’t know how to carry out these activities. This article will explore how to chat with divergent thinking from two aspects: how to chase girls and how to chat with girls.
1. How to chase girls
First of all, if you want to chase a girl, you must have self-confidence. Self-confidence is one of the important factors that attract girls. If you don't have self-confidence, it will be difficult to act natural and generous in front of girls.
Secondly, you must understand the girls’ interests and hobbies. Only by understanding her interests and hobbies can we better communicate with her. You can find out about her interests and hobbies by asking her what she likes to do and what music she likes to listen to.
Finally, pay attention to your words and deeds. When interacting with girls, you must pay attention to your words and deeds. Don't say bad words or make indecent gestures, as this will make the girl resent you.
2. Chatting skills for girls
When chatting with girls, you should pay attention to the following points:
First, be interesting. Girls like funny guys, so you can add some humor appropriately when chatting.
Second, pay attention to her topics. Girls like to be noticed, so pay attention to what she says when chatting and respond to her topics.
Third, behave naturally. Don't express yourself deliberately, as this will make girls think you are a hypocrite.
Fourth, we must respect girls. When chatting, you must respect the girl's opinions and ideas, and do not criticize or belittle her easily.
3. Divergent thinking chat
Divergent thinking means starting from a problem or topic and generating new ideas and perspectives through association, metaphor, etc. When chatting with girls, you can use divergent thinking to make the chat more interesting.
For example, when talking about travel, new topics can be generated through association. For example, "If you could travel through time and space, which era would you most like to travel to?" Such questions can trigger new topics and thoughts.
In addition, you can use metaphors to make the chat more interesting. For example, "You feel that love is like a marathon and you need to persist until the end to win." Such a metaphor can help girls better understand your thoughts.
4. Summary
Chasing and chatting with girls are problems that male friends often face, but as long as you master some skills, you can easily deal with them. When chasing a girl, you must have self-confidence, understand the girl's interests and hobbies, and pay attention to your words and deeds; when chatting with a girl, be interesting, pay attention to her topics, behave naturally and respect her; you can use hairdressing when chattingUse scattered thinking to make chatting more interesting.
