Many boys will feel confused. Their conditions are obviously better than those of girls, but in the process of pursuing girls, why do girls act like you are not good enough for her. Are girls really too ambitious? Why do some girls with a monthly salary of 3,000 look down on boys with a monthly salary of 3,000?
Brothers, you have to know that a person’s value is not only measured by money. Girls don’t like it. You feel that you are not worthy of her because she feels that her value is higher than yours. This value may be reproduction value, that is, a girl feels that she is good-looking and deserves a better one. It may also be survival value. Value, the girl’s family may be very rich, or her ability to create wealth is better than yours, so she doesn’t like your monthly salary of 30,000 yuan, or it may be emotional value, the girl feels that it is boring to get along with you, there is no There is no way I can fall in love with you as a person.
So, a girl feels that you are not worthy of her. Many of these low values ??are caused by your being too humble when pursuing girls. When we are chasing girls, we overly accommodate and please girls. You will do whatever the girl says and do whatever she asks you to do. You dare not refuse the girl. This will create a disparity in value, and the girl will feel that you are inferior. She, then she is naturally in a superior position, and your position is lower than hers.
And every girl needs different values. Your monthly salary of 30,000 can only prove that your survival value is strong, but your survival value may not attract all girls. Maybe girls pay more attention to it. What about emotional value? In this case, you can show more of your other excellent sides and attract girls in all aspects. You can also learn more about girls, see what kind of value they want, and display the value in these aspects in a targeted way, so that you can truly attract the girls you like.
Even if a girl hates you, it is probably because you are not attractive enough to make her feel excited. In fact, attractiveness can also be improved from aspects such as image, emotional intelligence, and chatting. If you really don’t know how to change, then you can come and I will teach you how to improve your attractiveness in a short time, build yourself up, and easily To attract girls, it can also help you to accurately control the girl and make her fascinated.
Finally, girls are generally upward compatible when looking for a partner, so she actually doesn’t like boys who are in the same condition as her. And if you are still rushing to greet her during this process, the girl will feel that you are not worthy of her.