How should couples who met through blind dates enter the love stage? In addition to simple chat communication, how to cultivate the relationship between two people? Let me share with you how to fall in love with the date after a successful blind date.
The first stage: "Talk"
Talk is the main content of lovers' psychological communication and the most important thing for lovers. Characteristics of primary communication. At this stage, both parties are getting to know each other. Talking is the main means of obtaining general information; talking is the basis and necessary condition for grasping the other party's values; talking must be based on high frequency and quality of communication.
The "talking" stage can be roughly divided into the following periods:
1. The hazy stage: both men and women have a good impression of each other and inadvertently pay attention to each other's characteristics. Behavior.
2. Ambiguity period: Neither the man nor the woman takes the initiative, but they care about each other in life.
3. Holding hands period: One party confesses to the other, and the formal love affair has just begun.
The second stage: "Love"
Love begins after a man and a woman have a deeper understanding. It's a powerful experience of attracting each other, confirming one's feelings, permeating emotions, and being inseparable. It is a symbol of deep friendship between lovers and a stage of emotional sublimation.
The "love" stage can be roughly divided into the following periods:
1. Love period: frequent contact with each other, close communication, and thinking about each other every minute Tired of being together.
2. Quarrel period: During this period, both men and women may have been constantly quarreling, complaining, and blaming each other for some things.
3. Cold War Period: This is the Cold War stage in which men and women may have a quarrel and the two sides no longer compromise first, and one side no longer tolerates the other.
The third stage: "love"
After successfully getting through the cold war or quarrels in the love stage, If you can appreciate each other's strengths and accept each other's shortcomings in love, you can return to sweet love and go on smoothly from then on, or until marriage, which is the ultimate "love" stage of love. That is the maturity stage. . "Love" is the combination of "talk" and "love", and is the crystallization of "love".
Therefore, many people need to be clear that not every couple can reach the "love" stage. You and he may only be called "love" rather than "love". To reach the "love stage", both parties in the relationship need to understand and tolerate each other.
A successful blind date does not mean a successful relationship. After establishing a relationship, what is more important is how to fall in love and how to start a blind date. Stage transition to love stage hope.The above tips can help you successfully get out of singles.
