Most boys believe that as long as they are rich or handsome, there will be girls who like them, but many rich and handsome boys still don’t have girlfriends. Why? In fact, girls pay more attention to feelings. Maybe they don't call you, maybe some of your behaviors make her annoying. So when chasing girls, what wrong behaviors will make them avoid them?
1. Blind confession
< p> There is a type of man who, when pursuing a woman, will confess his love to the woman in public. He is happy and prepares candles and flowers, and then suddenly confesses his love to the woman in a crowded place, hoping to force the woman to agree with the people around him. Promise yourself, in fact, this is often the most wrong thing to do. Many women don't like your approach. Even if they have a good impression of you, they will reject you because of your approach.2. Wishful thinking and being moved cannot buy love
The most taboo thing in relationships is wishful love. The other person obviously has no feelings for you, but you still blindly love him. The other person is nice, but girls don’t appreciate your favor at all. Love is inherently mutual. If you only give it yourself, you will feel exhausted in the end and you will not feel happiness at all. Love should be beautiful, there is no need to make yourself undignified.
3. Not understanding a woman’s thoughts
When many men pursue a woman, they don’t know how to pursue a woman. Even though they are giving her gifts, You're taking her to dinner again, why doesn't she agree to it? At this time, you should think carefully. Maybe if a woman is not these things at all, what a woman sometimes wants is actually the sense of security that you can give her, so you are pursuing a woman. Before that, you should figure out what she wants first, and it will be much easier.
4. Moral kidnapping of women
Some men believe that if they give to a woman, then she must accept his pursuit. This is a moral kidnapping. These are obvious You are willing to pay for it yourself, and no one is forcing you to do this, so you have no right to ask a woman to accept your pursuit, because sometimes pursuing a woman does not mean that you will be rewarded for your efforts, this is not A proportional one.
5. It’s so important to be a good match
A boy and a girl are particularly attracted to each other. The main reason is that you two have similar backgrounds. Sometimes it has nothing to do with whether you like her or not. In fact, it is always important to be a good match. If your family environment, work environment, living environment, etc. are very different, then problems will easily arise during your long-term relationship in the future.
Chasing girls is not as simple as imagined, sometimes you have to pay attention to fate. Maybe you are good enough, but she just doesn't call, so naturally she won't like you. Chasing girls is not just about expressing love, you also need to understand the other person's needs and know what she really wants, so that it will be easier to get out of the single.
