Two-way crush means that before flirting with a girl, both boys and girls secretly like each other, but the other party does not know it. If one doesn't tease and the other doesn't tease, the two of them will keep secretly enduring their feelings for each other, either until they can't let it go, or they will express their feelings to each other.
If the person you plan to flirt with happens to have a two-way crush on you, then pursuing her will become quite easy. How to tell whether a boy and a girl like each other? Let’s take a look at the symptoms of a two-way crush!
The symptoms of a two-way crush
Because they like each other, they will always think about each other, and they will peek at each other as they think about it. They are afraid that the other person will find out that they are "peeping", and they will always involuntarily look at each other when their eyes meet. Get out of the way. If the eyes of you and a girl are always deliberately misaligned, it means that you are likely to have a mutual crush.
Nothing is more painful than a secret love. If there is, it is nothing more than a two-way secret love. People who have a two-way crush care about each other but don't want the other person to find out. Due to this kind of psychological effect, boys and girls will try their best to appear in each other's field of vision or topics, but they cannot bear to go deep. The comprehensive performance of two-way secret love can be summed up as the conflict between obsession and restraint.
The psychology of two-way secret love
Due to this ambivalence between obsession and restraint, the relationship between the two people The relationship is like a hazy screen window. Although you want to be "close" as much as you want, you stop in front of the screen window because you don't know what the other person thinks and you are afraid that your wishful confession will create a gap in the relationship between the two.
Wong Kar-Wai, who is good at making romantic films, once said, "Although I like her very much, I never told her because I know that the things I can't get are often the best." This is an obvious secret love. Psychologically, it can even be said that the idea of ??having a crush is too much. If you love her, flirt with her. Only this kind of two-way secret love will have good results.
Bystanders of two-way secret love
Men and women who fall in two-way secret love will be filled with enthusiasm and love. Restraint, usually confide to one's friends, and if the friend who is a "bystander" also falls in love with the other person while watching or listening, things will become troublesome, so when you have a two-way crush, try to be Avoid the presence of bystanders.
