For long-distance couples, the dangerous period of long-distance relationships may be triggered at any time because they spend less time together and more separation. How many months is the dangerous period for a long-distance relationship? Generally speaking, the dangerous period of long-distance relationships will be later than that of ordinary couples. Generally, it is 9 months after the long-distance relationship (3 months for ordinary couples). So how should long-distance relationships successfully get through the dangerous period of love?
1. Words and actions maintain relationships
Many people think that long-distance relationships rely on chatting to maintain relationships, so just say more love words. In fact, this is not the case. Although words can temporarily move long-distance lovers, over time, only love words without actions will not work. And it’s not like a long-distance relationship cannot give the other party some behavioral comfort, such as sending her a small gift, or sneaking over to see her on her birthday to give her a surprise, or ordering her a bouquet of roses on Valentine’s Day. Flowers...these are all very good actions.
2. Plan your future
Many long-distance couples often worry about the future and are afraid that you will leave. Not until the end. Especially girls are afraid that failure in long-distance relationships will delay their youth. This kind of anxiety is also very normal. After all, long-distance relationships are not what relationships should be like. But since you can't change the situation in a different place, you must accept this way of love. Since you are in love, you must work hard to get along well with your relationship. Whether you can get together in the end is something that both of you need to plan for the future. If you are too worried and focused on results when you are away from home. On the one hand, it will feel very painful, and on the other hand, it will cause a little friction in your emotions. You have to know that useless worry is a burden. So no matter what, you can't worry too much about your future, you have to live every minute of now.
3. Don’t run away from problems
Since long-distance relationships cannot meet often, the accumulated problems may There are many, such as you can’t accompany your long-distance girlfriend when she’s sad, you can’t stand up and give her a safe haven when she’s hurt, you can’t help her even if she wants to change a light bulb or a toilet... And many long-distance couples are facing problems. I always find it easier to escape. After all, the distance is relatively long. When the other party does something that makes you unhappy, you may be too lazy to communicate or solve it with the other party. Over time, you will leave a small scar in your relationship. So since you accept a different place, you must take it seriously and never run away from problems.
4. Don’t forget to meet in person
Couples in long-distance relationships can usually rely on the Internet to meet To maintain a relationship, the key is to meet often. Meeting and contact between couples is the most important regulator of relationships. Many people have many things to face when they are in a long-distance relationship. For example, work, such as life. But no matter how busy you are, the editor recommends that you make time to meet. Many couples will feel an emotional peak after meeting. They will have a very sweet emotional experience, which is difficult to imagine for couples who do not have a long-distance relationship. Some couples who have been in a long-distance relationship focus on their own lives and neglect to meet each other. Some people are even used to stabilizing their relationships through text. In fact, long-distance relationships must be faced bravely no matter what. Only by actually contacting you will you have a better future.
The few months a long-distance relationship is a dangerous period cannot be generalized, and every long-distance couple has their own different circumstances and The more important thing about getting along is that everyone should get along well and solve problems together.
