There are only one blind date and countless blind dates. You may meet the one you like at one time. But if you like the other person, the other person may not necessarily like you. So after a blind date, how should you pursue the girl you like?
1. Be brave and proactive
< p> You have to be thick-skinned when chasing girls. If you don’t take the initiative and she doesn’t take the initiative, then things will slowly fade away. Especially the relationship between two people on a blind date is inherently fragile. If you don't take the initiative and strike while the iron is hot, it's easy to miss each other.2. About Confession
Many confessions that are too direct and too sudden often end in vain, and even make the other party want to avoid you. In fact, leaving each other's contact information is a good start in itself, which proves that both parties feel good about each other and that there is room for development to a certain extent. So don't be too quick and break this originally beautiful feeling all of a sudden.
3. Keep in touch
After the blind date, send at least one text message every day. But you can’t make phone calls every day, just once every two days, otherwise you will easily get offended by others. Besides, after the blind date, we are not that familiar with each other, so it is easy to find no topic to talk about on the phone. But text messages are different. Even if you don't know someone, you can still find a topic to chat about.
4. Give her some small gifts appropriately
After you get to know her better, you can also give her some small things, such as dolls and flowers. Girls all like flowers, but they must understand their meaning in advance.
There are also skills in giving gifts. Taking into account the girl’s financial conditions, you can give her gifts that make her feel a little expensive. But it cannot be too expensive, otherwise it will increase the financial burden on girls. You need to make her feel that you care about her, rather than using money to solve everything. Of course, things that are too cheap are not acceptable, as this will only make girls look down on you, and people will think you are stingy.
5. Seize the opportunity of small physical touch
When a girl likes you, remember to grasp the heat. Ten million sweet words of love are not as good as physical contact. For a moment, I often refer to women as "tactile creatures." So - take the initiative to shake hands.
At this time, you can have casual contact, such as touching her arms while walking together, accidentally touching her hair, or touching your fingers when passing something. In short, there are many opportunities. But you must pretend that "you didn't mean it", don't apologize, just pretend that nothing happened. If you master this, you will soon break through the first line of defense and eliminate the feeling of strangeness.
6. Before loving others, first become a lovable person.
The above are all routines. The most important thing is to make yourself a lovable person.
Live your own life, and don’t always hope that life will be more interesting if you have a significant other. First of all, you must become an interesting person who loves life. In addition to eating, sleeping, and working, you can also have yourselfyour social circle, your own hobbies, and your own time alone.
If you like someone, do it bravely. If you miss it, you will only regret it. When pursuing a girl you meet on a blind date, you can try to gain support from the other person's family and friends, which will greatly increase the probability of success.
