Although blind dates are said to be the most convenient way for single men and women to quickly get out of singleness and embark on the road to marriage, many brothers also have difficulties facing blind dates. It is easy to fall in love with a girl and find that they want to pursue this girl. It seems that It’s not easier than falling in love on your own.
Then today I will explain to you some blind date skills to help you chase the girl you love.
First of all, let’s start with the sources of blind dates. The sources of blind dates can be divided into three major categories:
The first type: Girls met on dating websites and social software.
The second type: introduction by mutual friends.
The third type: introduction by family members and relatives.
The first type of situation is the best to handle
The two parties know each other personally and there are no constraints from other aspects. We can just get along with each other according to the normal methods learned in the course.
The second type of situation is very easy to make mistakes.
Many people say OK when their friends tell us to introduce a boyfriend/girlfriend to us. Then you can contact him/her on WeChat, QQ to me. This approach is inappropriate. You ignore the role that the introducer can play.
The best way is to ask the introducer to arrange for the two parties to meet in person first, instead of directly adding the contact information of the other party yourself.
And when we meet for the first time, we should spend most of our attention and time on the introducer, who will match the two parties, and finally take the initiative to ask the target girl when the meeting is almost over. Ask for her contact information.
Establishing contact with girls in this way is equivalent to having a common bridge (introducer), and it is easier for both parties to develop a sense of security and trust.
After establishing a good relationship, we will approach the topic from the perspective of a friend’s introduction in the early stage, quickly get closer, and then switch to a normal mode of getting along with girls. At this time, we can follow the love methods in our courses. Perfect development.
The third type of situation is more terrifying
Blind dates introduced by family members are also the most common and the most encountered method of blind dates. In the usual sense, when we talk about blind dates, most of them refer to this form.
The scary thing about this blind date model is the interference of both families. The parents of both parties have a strong purpose in letting us meet, and sometimes it is even not up to us.
It is inevitable for girls and us to have our household registration checked by our parents and relatives. What is our income, whether we have a car, whether we have a house, how many children we will have in the future, etc.
So, how should you deal with this blind date situation?
Before going on a blind date, you must do a good job as parents and ask them not to interfere in your relationship.
Whether you don’t like her or she doesn’t like you, it’s all your fault.For the parties concerned.
Once parents forcefully interfere, it may put either us or the girl under tremendous pressure.
Especially for girls, their preferred way to deal with such irresistible pressure is to escape.
A typical example is that both parents think it’s pretty good, but they force you to continue dating regardless of your wishes!
Or, you don’t like the woman, and you Your parents have fallen in love with her and think she is an ideal candidate for their future daughter-in-law, so they force you to date her. If you don't do this, your parents will make all kinds of unreasonable pressures, causing both you and the girl to suffer terribly. .
In fact, after studying our courses, even if a girl doesn’t like you, you still have the opportunity to change her mind. She will fall in love with you, but once her parents interfere violently, she will have an irreparable bad impression on you, which will ruin a possible marriage.
Another situation comes from the brothers’ own misconceptions and misperceptions: blind date is the beginning of marriage.
Some brothers have this idea, thinking that she can’t escape after having a blind date with you, and then pursue her regardless of her feelings, and even force her to call her wife or daughter-in-law. On your head!
Because blind date itself is very purposeful, it is a social behavior performed by men and women of the right age for the purpose of getting married. Therefore, many brothers directly believe that the beginning of the blind date means that the marriage is about to begin.
The above are the reasons why girls no longer reply to you after many brothers go on a blind date.
Blind date is just a way for you to get to know a girl. Whether you can be together later depends on whether the girl is willing and how you manage and develop.
Don’t think that when a girl comes to go on a blind date with you, she wants to be with you! I know you are anxious, brother, but is it useful to be anxious?
You only have one girl to choose from, I I know, but you are not the only girl you can choose! Don’t think this is cruel. In real society, it is an indisputable fact that women have an advantage over men in dating, so we men should work harder to become more competitive!</ p>
Before this girl officially gets together with you, you don’t get her, so don’t rush to confess, saying that you like her very much and want to be with her. Instead, follow the normal development process to gain her favor.
