Many boys may have encountered this situation in the process of chasing girls: they have been chasing girls for a while, and they feel that the time is ripe and it is time to confirm the relationship with the girl. Unexpectedly, after explaining to the girl, the girl said that she It's slow to warm up, and I can't accept being with boys yet. When a girl says she is slow, is she really slow, or is she rejecting it? Let’s take a look at the reasons why girls are slow to warm up.
1. Girls are introverted
Some girls are introverted after all, do not like to socialize, and have little experience in getting along with boys, so she will have a different kind of pursuit of boys. Sure, it is what we commonly call insecurity. A girl will worry that a boy is not sincere to her, so she will want to spend more time testing the boy's sincerity to her, so that she can feel confident about starting a relationship with you. This kind of girl says that she is slow in love, which is actually because she is cautious about love and does not easily start it, but once she is sure about it, she will be devoted to you. Therefore, the so-called slow warming of introverted girls is actually the process of such girls slowly adapting to a strange man.
2. Girls have less relationship experience
Although some girls look outgoing, they usually have contact with boys. , but they are all exchanges between friends. In fact, these girls have little or no relationship experience. In this case, when girls say that they are slow to warm up, it may not be true that they are slow to warm up. Instead, when girls face their own unknown emotional experiences, they will subconsciously develop an escape mentality. Because it is difficult for her to judge whether this boy really likes her, and then she will have concerns, and it will take a long time to examine you.
3. Girls have been emotionally hurt
Some girls have been emotionally hurt before, but she has not. Have the courage to enter another relationship, because she is afraid of repeating the same mistakes as before, so she will use slow warming to slow down the progress of your relationship. Although such a girl still looks forward to feelings, she will spend more time accepting someone. The reason why she says she is slow to warm up to you now is because you don't feel safe enough for her. Of course, it may also be that girls are numb to love. When facing a new relationship, if you can't give her a sense of freshness, it will be difficult for her to start again. Arouse the desire to fall in love.
4. Girls are too rational
It is said that girls are love-minded and irrational when it comes to emotional matters. Yes, but there are actually some girls who are very sensible. She has her own set of principles for who she wants to fall in love with, and will take the time to examine whether you are the one she wants to fall in love with. She said that she was slow to warm up because she wanted to give each other more time to get to know each other. Moreover, some girls have very strict criteria for choosing a mate, and they have their own plans for their future relationships. You may not meet her requirements well enough, or you may have entered her life at the wrong time.live. Then a girl who can think rationally will be particularly cautious, and they will consider whether to accept you from a long-term perspective.
In fact, there is a big difference between girls being slow to warm up and refusing. Some girls can quickly adjust their emotions and accept new feelings if they tell you that they are slow to warm up. Some girls need a long time to accept you, or to examine you. The former means rejecting you, while the latter means being slow to warm up!
In addition, boys should not think that a girl who is difficult to woo means that she is slow to warm up. Don't think that she is looking for an excuse to reject you just because she says she is slow to warm up. Maybe a girl is really slow to warm up. In this case, You just need to spend more time getting her to accept you.
