When you like someone, you will always want to treat them unconditionally, but this approach will not actually make the other person like you. When chasing girls, you still have to take your time step by step. Today, the editor will share with you the 3 most taboo things about chasing girls.
1. Chat frequently
Frequently chatting with girls, in your opinion, maybe It's concern, but in the eyes of girls, they just think you talk nonsense.
Therefore, when chasing girls, it is best for us to achieve the effect of not chatting, but chatting can bring us closer to each other.
To put it bluntly, you have to be able to arouse the other person's interest. After all, the ultimate goal of our chat is to get closer to each other, not to kill time.
It’s not as difficult as you think. You only need to grasp one core, that is, every chat must have content.
For example, your greetings of good morning and good night every day are not as good as sharing a drama activity that she likes.
Instead of chatting with her every day about everyday things that are neither salty nor bland, it is better to do more research on her hobbies and arouse her curiosity as soon as you open your mouth.
When someone can tell you what you like, what you care about, and what you want every time you chat, will their impression on you gradually become more profound?
2. Give gifts
Many boys like to give gifts when they are chasing girls. They feel that the gifts they carefully selected will make her You must be able to feel your full heart and be moved.
In fact, most of the time it is just myself who is moved.
Sending gifts is actually quite private. If you think about it, ordinary friends may not give gifts to each other. Most of them will only give gifts if they have a good relationship with each other.
Especially when you have not known someone for a long time and are still relatively unfamiliar, or when you just like them unilaterally, try not to rush to give gifts.
Firstly, because it is too easy to expose your neediness, girls will either quickly stay away from you, or they will eat you up.
The second reason is that it is too easy to give gifts. What should we do to exceed her expectations in the future?
Therefore, we must choose a meaningful time for giving gifts. For example, after a few dates, she also shows obvious affection for you, or she starts to take the initiative to invite you, etc.
And the choice of gifts should also be careful. For example, don’t give something very expensive, let alone give it too much meaning. It’s something you spent a lot of effort to buy, or something you found only after asking a friend of a friend.
In this way, girls will feel that the weight is too heavy and difficult to bear.
It might as well be a small handicraft made by you, which is not too expensive and fully expresses your heart.
3. Assume identity
Some boys may misunderstand girls’ feedback. If a girl is willing to continue to contact him and come out to meet, she has agreed to date.
Actually, I want to say that girls don’t think like this.
Blind date is just one of the many ways for people to get to know each other. As long as there is no clear relationship, the contact between you is considered an understanding relationship. People just don’t dislike you.
I am willing to continue to contact and meet, and I just want to know more before deciding whether to take the relationship further.
So don’t say some incomprehensible words or do something that only your boyfriend does. This will push the other person further away faster.
