When you like a girl, you will feel that she is good in everything, think that she is excellent, and feel that you are not worthy of her. Once you have this kind of mentality, it is easy for boys to put themselves in a low position at the beginning and put girls in a high position, which is not conducive to your subsequent pursuit. So how should you pursue a girl who is very outstanding but very low-key?
1. The mentality of pursuing outstanding girls
Since you have said that a girl is a very outstanding but very low-key person, it means that she is a goddess in your heart and you can't help but I miss her and want to leave all the good things to her. Even willing to give everything for her. It's hard to get her with this kind of mentality. You have to remember that flattering, giving gifts, and unconditional obedience are never good things. I walked this road for you, it was miserable. At that time, I saw that other people could get out of singleness by trying to please and give gifts, so I followed suit. In the end, I became a licker for 4 years, unable to hold hands.
You must understand. An excellent girl is willing to fall in love with you because you are clean and tidy, have a serious attitude, and have a great experience with you. These charms come from within yourself. Rather than the good results you get from praying for blessings. In other words, in normal relationships, you don't need to emphasize that you are a suitor in your heart. You should emphasize that you are an attractive person and believe that she will fall in love with you.
If you adopt the mentality of a pursuer, it is easy for you to worry about gains and losses. You are afraid of making her unhappy, afraid that she will be snatched away by other boys, afraid that she will reject you, and afraid that your confession will fail. You will always be very panicked and anxious. A feeling of nervousness surrounded me.
But if you use your own charm, she should be with me, and I believe she will fall in love with you when chatting with me. You will find that you feel really comfortable getting along with me. Aren’t you tired of spending ten hours chatting in half an hour?
2. Strategies for chasing outstanding girls
The most efficient way to get out of singles is to attract, not to pay. . Chasing a good girl is like a marathon. Chatting in the early stage is just to save energy. Showing your lifestyle, hobbies, and ideas is to attract her easily and make her willing to take time to get to know you.
The mid-term chat is like looking for opportunities to slowly surpass, show your character, story, and interact offline, so that she can truly experience the process of getting along with you.
The later stage of chatting is more like the sprint stage, the thin piece of paper that breaks through the ambiguity. Ambiguity, expressing the idea of ??being together, just find a step to get in the car.
Because you had a good chat and had a great experience getting along with her, maybe you can do it if you push her hard in the end.
Finally, let me talk about some tips for chasing girls. People become a certain kind of relationship through the way they get along, rather than upgrading after verbal commitment. of. For example:
You and your brother can become brothers because you have experienced what brothers need to experience.It is only through this relationship that we become brothers, not just by saying brothers.
The same is true for lovers. After experiencing your boyfriend-like care, you break the relationship and become your boyfriend, instead of confessing your love and then doing what a boyfriend should do, you know? Relationships are made, not spoken.
