You may encounter various problems when pursuing a girl. Here are some common questions and suggestions:
How to start talking to her?
When you start talking to a girl, you can start with common topics, such as asking about her hobbies, work, daily life, etc. Don't ask direct personal questions, but gradually get closer through lighter topics. You can start with a simple greeting, such as: "How are you doing recently?" or "What's new lately?" and then start the conversation based on her answers. Remember, sincerity and respect are key, don’t be too nervous and keep the atmosphere natural and relaxed.
How to make her interested in me?
The key to getting her interested in you is to showcase your personality and charm. You can share your interests, hobbies, life experiences and values, but also listen carefully to what she shares. Show your sense of humor, confidence, and sincerity without being too showy. Find what you have in common and bring out what makes you unique in your communication. The most important thing is to let her feel your sincerity and care.
What gift can express my feelings?
When giving gifts, choose them based on her preferences and your relationship. It doesn’t need to be expensive, but it needs to be thoughtful. It could be her favorite flowers, a trinket, or a book that interests her. The key is to make her feel that you care and are attentive. Attaching a handwritten card to the gift expressing your blessings and gratitude will touch her heart even more. Remember, gifts are just a way to express your feelings, the most important thing is your sincerity.
What should I do if she doesn’t have feelings for me?
Don't be discouraged if she doesn't have feelings for you. Respect her decision and don't force it. You can stay friends first, gradually show your strengths and charm, and let her get to know you again. Don't be too impatient and give her some time and space to make her own decisions. At the same time, be prepared to accept her decision and don't be too pushy. Sometimes, friendship is also a good foundation for a relationship.
How to ask her out?
When you ask her out, you can choose some relaxing activities, such as walking, drinking coffee or watching a movie together. Don't make her feel pressured by being too formal. You can start with a simple date, such as: "Are you free on the weekend? Let's go for a walk and chat by the way?" or "There's a good movie recently, let's go watch it together?" Making her feel comfortable and at ease is the key. If she says yes, remember to plan ahead to make sure the date goes smoothly.
How to deal with rejection?
Don’t be discouraged by rejection. Respect her decision and don't get too entangled. You can start by keeping your distance, giving her some space, and then continue to show your care and respect. Maybe she just needs time to think,Maybe she doesn't have feelings for you. No matter what, be polite and respectful and don't make her feel uncomfortable. At the same time, be prepared to accept her decision and don't be too insistent. Remember, everyone has their own choice, don't let it affect your friendship.
How can I make her feel my sincerity?
Making her feel your sincerity takes time and action. Don't just talk, show your care and concern through actions. It could be a small surprise, a caring greeting or doing something small for her. But also be careful not to be overly attentive and give her some space. Most importantly, let her know that you truly care about her and are not just pursuing her.
