Some couples break up while walking, and some couples stay together for a lifetime. Why are there so many differences between couples? Excluding bottom-line reasons such as cheating, cheating, domestic violence, etc., the reason why many couples do not make it to the end is actually because of problems with their relationship model. Let me share with you the most comfortable way for couples to get along, so that they can get along in the long run.
1. Two people work hard when encountering a problem
If a couple wants to go a long way, they must first talk about it What I have come to realize is that a very, very, very important point in the relationship between couples is: "No matter what happens, the couple must work hard in the same direction and never give up on the relationship easily."
For example, a couple The personal relationship is actually very good, but because one parent does not agree, if the two people unite at this time to persuade their parents to accept that the couple continues to be together, then the result may be that the parents compromise. In the process of parents' opposition, if one person in the couple gives up, the one who has not given up must try to convince the parents, and at the same time encourage the other partner who passively gives up. It is very likely that they will not persist until the end and give up.
2. Pay attention to the sense of freshness and ritual
Many couples may not pay attention at all in their lives. Regarding the issue of freshness and sense of ritual, don’t underestimate these small rituals in life. From a psychological perspective, they are a destination. It can satisfy both parties’ feelings of love and being loved to a great extent. Nothing makes people feel more at ease than physical comfort. Whether it's An Nisha or a girl, they all want to be hugged and comforted by each other when they are tired.
The sense of ritual in relationships is actually the preservative of love. For example, occasionally showing affection in the circle of friends, having a candlelight dinner on Valentine's Day, preparing a small gift or something, don't think that you have been in love for a long time. These are unnecessary.
3. Maintain a sense of mystery
Many couples may feel that after a long relationship, everyone is honest with each other. , there is no mystery at all. Here are some examples of mystery:
1. It’s a girl’s birthday. In fact, you are preparing a surprise, but when the girl asks you, don’t tell her to wait until her birthday before showing her your surprise. .
2. In the process of getting along with girls, if you want to maintain a sense of mystery, don’t say too much. If you can say “I watched a movie”, you must not spoil it on a large scale; some words You can apply 'humor' appropriately, with witty one-liners or comments; you have your favorite models and the like at home, but she doesn't move; you don't touch much of her stuff. Give each other space.
4. Respect each other
In fact, it is normal for couples to have conflicts and problems. What should we do about this? Of course, respect each other and don't say hurtful words. As for how to resolve conflicts, firstly, it is to see who can produce more theories and evidence to prove it. If the other party feels that it is justified, he will naturally bow his head and admit that the other party is correct; secondly, when conflicts arise, resolutely do not let them stay overnight. Make concessions to each other and resolve issues in a timely manner.
The most comfortable way for couples to get along is actually when both parties can show their true side in front of each other, and they will not feel bored or abrupt when getting along, so that they can go a long way.
