In the new year, I believe that most single boys are forced by their family elders to go on blind dates. In fact, the chance of meeting a high-quality girl in a blind date is not small, so we can meet the high-quality girl we like in a blind date. How should a girl pursue her, and how can she develop further with her after a blind date?
Below, the editor will bring you a strategy for pursuing a girl after a blind date.
1. Use the natural sense of connection
The circle of blind dates is only that big , basically introduced by relatives at home, so we will more or less have some direct or indirect contact with the blind date. In this case, we must make full use of this contact for further development.
For example:
While chatting with my blind date, I suddenly discovered, “It turns out we are alumni of the same school!” “What year are you from? Maybe we are in the same grade. Oh.”
This kind of connection can make us and our blind date less strangers from the beginning, and can save us a lot of steps when pursuing our blind date.
Therefore, if we want to tap into this natural sense of connection, we must first do our homework and learn about the girl from the introducer. The more detailed the information, the better.
2. Let go when chatting
After a blind date Chatting only about safe topics will not attract girls. In fact, your cautiousness, your secretiveness, your nervousness, your fear, your need to please, your flattery, these feelings can be easily felt by the other party. The more beautiful a girl is, her perceptive ability may be beyond your imagination, and her ability to sense your inner thoughts is particularly strong.
If you talk about safety topics, not only will it not add points to your impression, but it will deduct points. Your insecurity will make him feel that you are a weak person. On the other hand, if you let go of chatting, letting go of showing off, saying what you have to say, just like when talking to a friend, not taking her seriously and not caring whether she agrees with you, this can actually produce results. Incredible appeal.
At this time, you are a stronger person than her. She will look at you with admiration and know that you are not covering up at all, so she will like your frank style. Even if she doesn't agree with your opinion on a certain issue, she will respect your ideas. Women like to hear men's frank and true thoughts from men. This is in line with her imagination. She will not think that you are a gangster or frightened. The approach of trying to please cannot produce attraction, and safe topics cannot produce attraction. Attraction requires humor, unpredictability and mystery.
3. Explore other senses of connection
Other senses of connection refer to other than social relations, natural relations such as classmates and classmates We have something in common in terms of personality, experience, and hobbies.
"Hey, it turns out you like eating mustard!"
Hobbies like this have the same taste, which is why you connect. In terms of shared hobbies, the more niche your hobbies are, the stronger the resonance between you, the more topics you can talk about, and the more goodwill you can build initially.
< p>For example, many people can't stand the rush of mustard. She likes to eat it, but her friends find it strange and keep them at a distance. But today I met you, a boy who likes to eat mustard as much as she does. It's like being alone for many years. The feeling of meeting a close friend.With these feelings of connection, we will have a lot of common topics with the girls on the blind date, and it will be much easier to chat in the future.
<p style="text" -align: center;">Of course, just doing this is just the beginning.
The next step is to determine whether this young lady is attracted to you and is interested in you. , this is the prerequisite for further development with the person you are dating. Otherwise, if you happily say a lot of things to her, the young lady will have no emotions in her heart, and may even be a little annoyed. Isn’t this stupid?
Only by chatting with the other party if they are interested in you and upgrading the relationship can you get twice the result with half the effort.
