For a long-lasting relationship between lovers, both parties need to work hard to maintain it. There are many things that couples should not do when getting along, otherwise it may affect the relationship between the two people. The following 10 things should not be done even by couples who are in the best relationship, otherwise it will really hurt their relationship.
Things couples cannot do:
1. Not giving each other face
Neither men nor women can stand this, especially in front of friends. If you don't give the other person face, or even stand on a united front with others, then he will do this to you next time. Moreover, this kind of behavior will severely hurt the other party and make the other party very unhappy. Even if you want to cajole him afterwards, it will be useless no matter how hard you coax him after the damage has been done.
2. Secretly looking at each other’s cell phones
This kind of behavior threatens your trust. The most important thing between lovers is trust. If you don’t trust him, secretly look at his cell phone and see His chat history, then even if there is no suspicion among you, suspicion will appear out of thin air. The worst thing is that this suspicion becomes the norm and the trust between you is broken. If we don't find a way to restore it, the trust crisis will only get worse in the future.
3. Lying
Lying is just like cheating. The first time is the second time, because you find that as long as you lie, you can save a lot of explanations. time. After that, you can lie as much as you can, and the panic will get bigger and bigger, and you will become smoother and smoother, and you will even keep talking until the other party finds out.
4. Perfunctory
Every time you deal with the other person, the other person will be sad, and she will also let you feel this sad feeling. Slowly a vicious cycle will form. Or some people hold it in until they can’t hold it in any longer, and then they turn around and leave without any extra explanation to you.
5. Laughing at each other
Couples can be said to be the closest people to us besides our parents. Often the ridicule of the closest people will be several times more lethal than the ridicule of others. . If the other person is honest and forthright, they will remind you that what you did was hurtful. But if the other person is a sensitive and timid person, then your journey to break up has already begun.
6. Disagree with the other person’s ideals
Everyone has ideals. When we were young, our teachers taught us not to laugh at other people’s dreams, even if their dreams are to be a supermarket cashier. But when you grow up, some people always forget. When you laugh at your partner's ideals, you actually send him two messages. One is that you look down on him from the bottom of your heart; the other is that you are not the same person, and everyone knows the consequences of not being the same person.
7. Accusing the other party’s elders
This requires everyone to act affectionatelyBe smarter and don't directly accuse the other party of their elders' faults. Even if you are the right party, the other party will not be able to accept it. You have to find a way to say it in a tactful way.
8. Don’t discuss things.
If a couple wants to do something, it’s best to ask each other for their advice and don’t make the decision yourself, otherwise the other person will feel unhappy. After all, she is a living person there, why don't you ask her. If you have ever experienced it, you should know that it feels really uncomfortable to be ignored.
9. Show fear of marriage
As the saying goes, if you fall in love without getting married, you are acting like a hooligan. What people need most is hope. When others are with you, they don’t say they must marry you, but if you show your fear of marriage in advance, others will think that you are teasing them. In this case, this relationship is still What is the need to continue.
10. Stay silent during an quarrel
Staying silent during an quarrel is as uncomfortable as sneezing without being able to sneeze. Punch on cotton, there will be no mark at all, it can really make people vomit blood. When the other party discovers that you are always like this, the other party will no longer think of ways to proactively resolve the conflicts between you. In this case, the game between you will be over.
