A long-term relationship is what many friends dream of, so do you know what maintains a long-term relationship? In my opinion, attraction is an essential and important factor for a long-term relationship, so even if we are in love, we don’t want to Forget about increasing your attractiveness so your relationship will last. Today, the editor will talk to you about behaviors that reduce attraction in love. If you don’t know it yet, come and take a look.
1. Message bombardment, this is really uncomfortable. Whenever something happens, messages will be sent continuously. In the adult world, everyone will have some troubles in their hearts. They don't seek to be happy every day, but only seek to have no bad things. This bad habit will instantly worsen your mood and label you as irrational and immature.
2. Follow the trend of aesthetics, imitate what the people around you wear and buy hot styles, and the clothes are neither fish nor fowl suitable for you. Get in touch with various aesthetics and learn from some good works. Stay away from the hottest styles but at the same time maintain masculinity, occupy an absolute advantage, and avoid homogeneity.
3. Go to the extreme, always only express your position on a matter from your own point of view, and make long speeches without considering the feelings of your girlfriend.
4. Don’t ask the other person’s opinion when going out for a date and always order your favorite food. Satisfying the other person's heart will make you happy, so give it a try.
5. When going out on a date, you don’t consider what type of date your girlfriend likes. There is a lack of communication and you only know how to play with your mobile phone. After a date, you get nothing.
6. If you look at your phone crazily during a date and do not respect the other party, the other party will find it boring and have no interest in being active next time. .
7. Don’t like to study, have limited topics, low values, follow what others say, and have no own ideas.
8. Not being able to take jokes and being too pretentious is a sign of lack of confidence. My girlfriend can take advantage of my shortcomings, and I will even make fun of my shortcomings. This does not prevent her from seeing you as a handsome guy at all. It's really not generous at all if you get mad at her because she occasionally makes fun of your appearance.
9. Not romantic, easily embarrassed, not charming enough. That woman doesn't like interesting guys, so don't let shyness limit the spark. This is important for both passionate and long-term relationships.
The above 9 points are very typical manifestations of reducing attraction in love, so if you want a long-term relationship, you must avoid these behaviors, do you understand?
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