It is easy to start a long-distance relationship, but it is actually quite difficult to persist. The reason why many long-distance couples give up halfway is because they can't bear to do everything alone during the long-distance relationship. No matter how reluctant they are, they can only see each other once in a long time. So how do those long-distance couples who have achieved successful long-distance relationships persist? Let me share with you how they persist in their long-distance relationship?
1. Emotional expression
Although you cannot be with the other person all the time in a long-distance relationship, what should you do if you miss the other person many times? We agreed at the beginning that when we miss each other, we would send each other a love message. When the other party sees the message, we will call each other in our free time and express our feelings to each other. In fact, it is okay not to see each other in a long-distance relationship. The most important thing is to know each other. The affection makes me feel at ease.
2. Good night greetings
We had a habit when we were in a long-distance relationship, that is, before going to bed every night Will send each other a good night greeting. Whether it's a quarrel or a cold war, this habit remains unchanged, and then the conflicts between them disappear. Long-distance relationships are inherently prone to being frustrated, so why would you need to be angry with the other person? Isn't it good to go down this level?
3. Emotional maintenance
Although we are in a long-distance relationship, I receive a bouquet of flowers from my boyfriend every Monday. When I asked him later, he said it was from a store I found online. Booked a monthly package. Although the bouquet is not expensive, because of this bouquet, I look forward to it every Monday and my mood becomes brighter. Of course, a long-distance relationship cannot rely on the boy's unilateral contribution. I will also buy a lot of food gift bags to feed him every once in a while. The biggest enemy in a different place is the loneliness and helplessness that a person has to face. The feeling that it’s raining there but I can’t do anything will indeed make people feel disappointed, but we can always find a way to give each other the force, right?
4. Meeting agreement
Every time we want to separate, we will make an agreement with each other: next time When to meet. It doesn’t matter whether he comes to see me or I go to see him, but the approximate time will definitely be implemented. Next, the two began to count the days on the calendar. The advantage of this kind of segmented countdown is that the entire long distance relationship, which may last 3-5 years, can be divided into small timelines, and the pressure on the heart is much less. In addition, in addition to normal studies, work and life, we will use this time to make some changes and progress for each other
5. Future plans
A girl in a long-distance relationship is willing to Falling in love with you is actually blocking your youth. Of course, the same is true for boys. Therefore, if you want your long-distance relationship to be successful, your plans for the future must be clear. For example, where will I go to work in the future, and where will I settle down and live in the future. After making these plans, you must work together, letting each other see their hope for future plans is the fundamental driving force for long-distance relationships to persist.
Of course, some people may say that the biggest problem in how to persist in a long-distance relationship is to endure loneliness and loneliness, and not to cheat on others. Cheating is actually a personal moral issue and has nothing to do with whether you are in a long-distance relationship or not. If a long-distance relationship wants to persist, both men and women need to withstand the test and persevere in order to succeed.
