In fact, many exes now maintain contact with each other, and even after divorce, the two can maintain contact above the level of friendship. This seems to be becoming a social trend, and more and more people are starting to experience this. We have heard for a long time that after a breakup, we must make a complete break, but more and more people choose not to make a complete break. Why is this? Let’s put the question more straightforwardly: Can a man and a woman still be friends after having sex?
Wouldn’t it be embarrassing if we could still be friends? If we can't be friends, what's the point of this article?
1. Changes in the relationship between men and women after having sex
When men and women have sex, it has become a fact... For example:
@zhouzhou: She and I were originally We are good friends who talk about everything. One day, we accidentally drank too much at a friend's party, and we accidentally had a relationship. When we got up the next day, the two of us returned to our original lives as if nothing was wrong. We each have male and female friends, and we seem to have a tacit understanding, and we no longer mention what happened that day, but I know that the friendship between us is no longer what it was before.
In fact, no matter how there is no emotional basis, it has become a fact that you have slept with each other. Even if you never mention what happened that day in order to protect your feelings, the incident will not be erased. In other words, you can never go back to the way you used to get along without any scruples.
When you are in a certain vague stage with a good friend, the touch of skin seems to press the switch of desire, temporarily There was a tacit understanding of forgetting each other's status as friends, and the desire between the two of them was ignited in the condensed air, and the sexual relationship between friends just happened.
2. Can a man and a woman still be friends after having sex?
Most people associate sex with love, but they have never thought that friendship and sex can also be intertwined. When we are together. They are all in bed, don't they want to be together? This may be a question in many people's minds. According to a study, more than half of people who have had sex with friends never become lovers.
Because there is no need to maintain love between friends, naturally I don’t feel that I have to start a relationship between a man and a woman when we go to bed. Instead, I start to worry about how I can continue to have physical contact with this person. Get along with friends. I am afraid that the relationship will start to deteriorate after having sex, so I am careful about my every move, word and deed, fearing that the other party will misunderstand me.
If the relationship between friends accidentally crosses the line, there is no need to panic. The current love between you and me shows that going to bed is not a bargaining chip, nor is it a means to test whether the other party will cherish you. The most important thing is whether the two people have found a suitable position in the relationship to continue to get along with each other.
So,Whether a man and a woman can still be friends after having sex depends on how you get along next. First of all, the two of you should communicate well. No matter what your decision is in the end, true friendship will come after being honest, understanding the situation of both parties, respecting each other's decisions, and making the best decision for both parties. You may not be able to go back to the past, but I believe you will find the most comfortable and comfortable mode in your new relationship.
