How to maintain a relationship in a long-distance relationship? This question is something that all couples who are experiencing a long-distance relationship want to figure out, so today we will talk about this topic. But before that, I want to say one more thing. Although long-distance relationships are very painful, after surviving long-distance relationships, I believe nothing can stop you. Come on~!
1. Make full use of free time
For example, use the time on the way to and from work to call each other every day, say hello to each other at work, and talk about today What are you going to do? When you get off work, tell each other what you have experienced today.
Make full use of this time and let the other person participate in your life, so that you don’t have to deliberately set aside a long period of time to make phone calls.
2. Full communication
When long-distance relationships quarrel, many simple things can easily become complicated because of the screen.
If there is a quarrel, it must not be left overnight. It is best to resolve it on the same day. Don't let your emotions ferment. After you have calmed down after the quarrel, have a good chat with the other person about why you quarreled.
3. Synchronize the pace of life
For example, go to bed early and get up early together, and monitor each other to see if each other goes to bed early and gets up early.
If you don’t get up at the agreed time, you can call the other person to wake him up, joke about why he got up late, and listen to the other person’s lazy voice as he wakes up. If you are caught secretly staying up late, there will be a small punishment and so on.
4. Video every now and then
You don’t need to video every day. Video is a rare opportunity for you to see each other. At this time, dress up well to make the other person’s eyes shine. Suddenly I feel that you secretly become more beautiful, which makes the other person reluctant to leave you, which is more conducive to maintaining the relationship.
5. Develop a habit that belongs to you.
For example, make a phone call before going to bed at night, or give a good morning kiss when you wake up in the morning. Once you develop a habit, the other person will remember you involuntarily. I wonder if I have done anything today, I am thinking of you.
6. Plan together what you want to do after meeting.
For example, go to eat barbecue together, watch the sunrise together, do things that both of you want to do, and make the long wait come to an end. Once you have things to look forward to, long-distance relationships will not be so difficult! Daily chats can also revolve around these topics, no longer boring good morning and good night greetings.
7. Let the other person participate in your life
For example, if you have a bad habit of staying up late or skipping breakfast , let the other party supervise you, let her participate, and influence the little things in your life, which will increase each other's sense of existence and satisfaction, and also deepen the relationship.
8. Give each other small gifts
For example, when chatting, the other party casually mentions what they want and secretly prepares it. Or if the other person says she is unhappy or misses you, you can order takeout to let her feel that you are always there.
9. In addition to chatting, you can also play games to increase your feelings.
If you want to watch movies, choose Weiguang app;
If you want to listen to music together, you can choose QQ to listen together. Song function;
If you want to record a song together, you can choose the full name K song;
If you want to play games, you can choose King of Kings, Landlords, etc.;
If you want to kill werewolves, You draw and I guess you can play the app; (You can also choose the WeChat applet)
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Written at the end
When we are in a long-distance relationship, Girls will feel insecure. They obviously have a boyfriend but their life is worse than being single. At this time, girls choose to use it to attract your attention. Only through the process of you constantly comforting her can she feel that she still has someone. It hurts, feeling how much you care about her.
Therefore, girls sometimes make troubles without reason. I hope everyone can tolerate them, instead of being annoying and ignoring them!
