Nowadays, Platonic love is often mentioned by people, but if you ask those supporters if they are willing to have a sexless marriage, they will not answer. Obviously, sex, family, and money are indispensable components of marriage. A marriage without any one of them will be more or less unhappy.
A marriage without sex is like being a widower, a marriage without a family is like being a sex partner, and a marriage without money is like being poor. Among them, sexless marriage is an unspeakable secret. Many couples are too embarrassed to speak out about this issue and maintain it silently. Is it necessary to maintain asexual marriage?
Is it necessary to maintain a sexless marriage?
Many people choose to tolerate it in a sexless marriage, but a long-term lack of sex will lead to people doing things that violate ethics and morals. Things like cheating.
Under the background of cheating, it is obviously impossible to maintain an extramarital relationship for a long time. Such a result will create a prodigal or a slut, which will ultimately harm you. Therefore, the most important thing for a sexless marriage is to solve the problem of sex. problem.
If sex cannot be resolved in marriage, divorce will happen sooner or later. Procrastination is just avoiding the problem and may even cause bigger problems.
What is a sexless marriage like?
My husband is not good at it. He really can’t hold on for 20 seconds. I ejaculate within three strokes, and I have such a strong self-esteem that it’s hard to hide it.
Every time I asked for sex, there was all kinds of delays. Every time I was in a passive state, I felt like I was always begging her to do the same thing as me.
After getting married, she was very resistant to me touching her, but now she reflexively pushes me away when I touch her.
It’s so miserable! My husband can’t do it either. We’ve been married for more than a year and haven’t had sex for seven or eight months.
In the early stage of our relationship, I was always reluctant. After we got married, he had no idea at all, and I couldn’t express my feelings openly to hurt his self-esteem.
How to solve asexual marriage
To solve asexual marriage, we must first start with the reasons for "asexual". Solve the problem fundamentally.
Some couples are asexual because of ideological resistance, love for other people, prejudice against sexual behavior, etc.
Some couples are asexual because of lack of ability. In this case, they need to go to the hospital for treatment and exercise more.
Some couples are asexual because there are people outside who regularly meet their needs, which leads to problems between couples. This situation may require divorce to resolve.
