How to have a happy argument with your girlfriend in a humorous way
1. Prelude: Resolve the tension
Before starting a humorous quarrel, you must first resolve the tension. . You can choose an appropriate time, such as watching TV or cooking together, and suddenly say a funny sentence to lighten the atmosphere. For example: "Dear, did you know? I found that the two of us are actually natural 'quarrel masters'. We can discuss problems every time until our faces turn red. I really admire myself!" In this way, not only can tension be resolved, but also Causing laughter from your girlfriend.
2. Find the "pain points": express dissatisfaction in a humorous way
During the quarrel, find Accurate "pain points" are very important. However, when using humor to express dissatisfaction, you need to pay attention to the adjustment of tone and expression. You can choose some exaggerated and funny metaphors to describe the problem, so that your girlfriend can't help laughing after hearing it. For example: "Dear, did you know? Every time you wash the dishes, it's like participating in the 'Dishwashing Olympics'. The water splashes and the dishes and chopsticks fly. I feel like I'm watching a wonderful show!" This can both Expressing dissatisfaction can also resolve the tense atmosphere of quarrels.
3. Self-deprecating humor: using yourself as the butt of a joke
When you have a happy quarrel with your girlfriend, you can choose to use yourself as the butt of the joke to resolve the conflict. Through self-deprecating humor, you can not only reduce the stress on the other party, but also make the argument more interesting. For example: "Dear, you said that I look like a child every time I play games. In fact, you don't know that I am a professional-level 'game addict' and I have to practice for hours every day to maintain such a high level! "In this way, it will not only ease the atmosphere, but also make your girlfriend laugh.
4. Change the topic: use humor to guide attention
When the argument reaches an impasse, you can choose to change the topic to change the atmosphere. By using humor to guide attention, you can make your girlfriend forget about the previous quarrel, thereby achieving the purpose of resolving conflicts. For example: "Dear, you know what? I just saw a kitten playing outside. Its movements are so cute! Why don't we go play with it and make ourselves feel better!" In this way, not only It can divert your girlfriend's attention and lay a good foundation for harmonious relationship in the future.
5. Reconciliation: End the quarrel in a humorous way
After a humorous quarrel, it must finally end in a reconciliation. You can choose a funny way to express your apology and show your kindness to your girlfriend. For example: "Dear, I admit that I do act like a big fool sometimes, but you know what? I do it on purpose every time, just to make you laugh and make you happy!" In this way, not only Being able to express your apology can also make your girlfriend feel your care and love for her.
ThroughAfter following the above five steps, we can happily quarrel with our girlfriends in a humorous way. During the quarrel, pay attention to the adjustment of tone and expression, and choose the appropriate time and method to resolve the tense atmosphere. Through humorous quarrels, conflicts can not only be alleviated, but also feelings between each other can be enhanced.
