Is there any skill in maintaining a long-term relationship? My answer is yes. So if you want a long-lasting relationship, you might as well take a look at the methods and techniques for a long-lasting relationship that the editor brings to you today. It mainly sorts out the common pitfalls in relationships, which can be fatal.
1. Strong control
Love is about making both parties better together, not " Lost freedom". You can have reasonable demands on your significant other, but you can't let others live their lives according to your way.
2. Belittle/complain about the other person
Think that you are excellent and superior, feel that the other person has many problems, hold on to what you think are your shortcomings, and occasionally make jokes. Send this kind of person away as soon as possible Bar.
3. Compare with your ex and have entanglements with your ex.
What is past is past. If the other party wants to say something, they will naturally say it. Don't compare your current situation with your ex. Your ex is in the past tense, good or bad has nothing to do with you.
4. Try to change the other person
Being with the other person is because you like this person, not to change this person. You must know how to put yourself in someone else's shoes and don't force others to do things they don't like. If you can accept it, stay together; if you can't, then separate.
5. Suspicion
Don’t use “care” as an excuse to doubt the other person. This is also a common problem in relationships. Everyone should and can have privacy, trust each other, and give each other some space, otherwise it will be very tiring.
6. Always feel that you are not at fault
No couple in a relationship can avoid quarreling. It is normal to quarrel over small things, but do not take all responsibility or mistakes for the matter. Count it on the other side.
7. Talk about breaking up or divorce
It is not scary to encounter and expose problems. If you encounter problems in relationships, After the two of them calmed down, they sat down and talked it over clearly. Once the matter was resolved, let it go. They made a rule not to say those two words no matter how angry they were.
8. Lack of communication
No one can truly consider the problem from whose perspective.
9. Revealing old scores
What should be past must be past. No matter right or wrong, don’t always bring up old scores. Repeating those things will not only seem trivial but also very harmful. Emotions on both sides.
10. Cold War
You must understand that cold treatment and cold war are two different ways of solving problems. Cold treatment is to let each other calm down first and then deal with the matter. The Cold War will only deepen the gap between two people. The two people's thoughts will be: one thinks he will not leave, and the other thinks he will stay. In the end, everyone went their separate ways.
11. Deceiving the other party
NoneWhether it is a boy or a girl, once there is deception, it will hurt the other party, and it will be difficult to build trust again.
12. Do not save face regardless of the occasion
Argue and criticize each other in public. Everyone is concerned with saving face. If you have anything to say, go home and tell them.
The above 12 points are all "thunders" that cannot be stepped on in relationships. After reading this, can you tell me how many of them you have hit?
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