Love is never something that can be controlled by humans. You may not know when your girlfriend will fall in love with someone else, and you will also fall in love with another girl. In this case, you can still say that everyone is happy together and separated. They don't love each other anymore. But if you still love your girlfriend, but you find that your girlfriend has fallen in love with another man, what should you do in this situation?
1. The extent to which your girlfriend falls in love with another man
When you find out that your girlfriend has fallen in love with another man, don’t rush to break up with her first. You must know that the key to falling in love is to If you are responsible for each other and problems arise, it means you have room for improvement. (Of course it does not involve issues of principle)
The first step is to communicate well with your girlfriend and understand her thoughts on a deep level. Tell her that she will feel uncomfortable if she gets even a little closer to other boys. This is not possessiveness, this is just the feeling of loving someone you love.
In fact, some girls have a crush on other boys when they have a boyfriend. That is just a pure crush, but she just wants to It's just a thought, there will be no actual action. In fact, this kind of girl doesn't think much and is very direct and frank. What you have to do is not to quarrel with her, she can realize that it is wrong. What you have to do is to be nice to her again, so that she can only think of you. If She gets the comfort and care she wants from others, and your quarrels are just accelerating your separation.
The second step is to pay more attention to your girlfriend. Most girls in love like to stay with the person they love. Give her a small surprise from time to time, such as writing a letter, drawing a simple drawing, or sending a small gift. She will like these. You should also pay attention to her minor conditions during menstruation and remind her not to eat cold or spicy food. You can also order a warm takeaway for her at this time, because she can feel your intentions. When you do these things well enough, you should also pay attention to what she needs, especially her spiritual feelings, and ask her to express them to you.
The third step is to express your thoughts about being with her in the future, and you must actually work hard to do it! It will be much better to make abstract things concrete!
Finally, falling in love itself is not a simple thing. It covers too many things. Since you love, you must stick to it and leave no regrets
2. Break up decisively
Of course, if you find that your girlfriend has developed an affair with another man, it is not just a breakup. The problem shows that this girl is not an honest and reliable person and is not loyal. But this kind of thing cannot be concealed in paper, and it will be discovered sooner or later. The situation is embarrassing, which shows that she lacks wisdom and is short-sighted. When you meet a girlfriend like this, no matter how many years of relationship you have, reason must prevail. Breaking up as soon as possible is the best choice for you.
Found out that my girlfriend fell in love with another manIt's not a good thing to come. If you can solve it well, solve it well. If you can't solve it well, then you can only break up.
