Quarrels are inevitable problems between lovers, and when your girlfriend is angry, your boyfriend should learn to coax her and resolve conflicts. Below are some words to coax your girlfriend, I hope it will be helpful to everyone.
1. Express your apology
First of all, when you have a fight, the first thing to do is to express your apology. No matter what the reason for the argument is, apologize to your girlfriend. You can say, "Dear, I'm really sorry for making you angry. I know I did something wrong, please forgive me." Such words can show that you are willing to take responsibility for your mistakes and recognize that you are wrong.
2. Listen to her feelings
After apologizing, it is important to listen to your girlfriend’s feelings . Don't interrupt her or try to defend or explain. Just listen quietly to her complaints and dissatisfaction. You can say: "Honey, I know I hurt you, now please tell me how you feel. I will listen carefully." Such words can make your girlfriend feel valued and understood.
3. Express care and love
After listening to your girlfriend’s feelings, it is very important to express care and love. You can say: "Honey, I really care about you, and I don't want us to quarrel over little things. You are the most important person to me, and I love you." Such words can make your girlfriend feel cherished and loved. .
4. Commit to correcting mistakes
In addition to expressing apology and concern, you also need to commit to correcting your mistakes. You can say: "My dear, I will reflect on myself and avoid making the same mistakes again. I will pay more attention to your feelings and be a better boyfriend." Such words can let your girlfriend see your determination and hard work.
5. Come up with solutions
Finally, it is also important to come up with solutions when coaxing your girlfriend. You can say: "Honey, we can find a solution to the problem together. We can sit down and have a good talk and find a solution that is satisfactory to both parties." Such words can make your girlfriend feel that you take the problem seriously, and Be willing to work it out with her.
When you have an argument, coaxing your girlfriend involves expressing your apology, listening to her feelings, showing concern and love, promising to make things right, and coming up with solutions. I hope the above words can help everyone resolve conflicts and maintain each other's feelings.
