In marriage, because we have been together for a long time, there will no longer be as much romance and freshness as when we were in love. Therefore, if the relationship between husband and wife wants to be long-lasting, both parties need to work together to manage and maintain it. What are some ways to enhance feelings?

Methods to enhance the relationship between husband and wife:

1. Both husband and wife should take three deep breaths before getting angry and wanting to quarrel. Pay attention to your spouse's strengths and give appropriate praise. You should also encourage each other regularly. Don't stop paying attention to your personal image just because you are an old couple.

2. Take care of yourself and look nice to stay attractive. When two people are at home, try to stay in the same room so that they don't disturb each other, but they feel at ease when they can see each other.

 3. Say good night before going to bed every day. If the other person does anything thoughtful for you, such as pouring a cup of hot water or cutting a plate of fruit, you should sincerely express your gratitude.

4. Choose a set of bedding that you like and improve it for you. The color and atmosphere of the bedroom, and insisting on doing ten minutes of exercise every day can keep you energetic. Prepare some unexpected gifts for birthdays and festivals to surprise the other person. The gifts don’t have to be expensive, just be thoughtful.

5. Take the initiative to take over some housework, especially if the other person loves cleanliness and doesn’t like mess, they must keep the house together of hygiene.

6. Express your love to your partner from time to time. For many couples who have been married for a long time, they feel that saying "I love you" will seem very deliberate, but expressing love directly will actually make the other person feel Very happy.

7. Be considerate of each other. Although there is no need to be too polite between husband and wife, if the other person comes back from get off work or helps with something at home, you can hug him and tell him how hard he worked. Or thank him. Sometimes life just needs the other person's praise from time to time to make the other person feel psychologically satisfied.

8. No matter what unhappy things happen to both parties, do not quarrel in front of parents, children and outsiders. You can go back and discuss it carefully. This can not only take care of each other's face, but also allow you to think calmly.

9. Although couples are intimate, they should give each other appropriate space and distance so that they can have their own separate time. Socialize and do things you like.

10. Don’t always care about who contributes more to the family in life. Men are the backbone of the family and have to work harder at work, but they must also be considerate of women’s difficulties. They must Go home, pack your things, take care of the children, cook, wash clothes and other trivial matters.


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