Thinking about my wife’s frigidity experience, I feel uncomfortable thinking about it. I guess it might be like this - a person in the desert can see water but cannot drink water, right?
A certain male netizen ’s self-report:
Can you understand the feeling of a woman sleeping next to me, my whole body aroused, but I have to grit my teeth and suppress my feelings? The box of condoms on the bedside is two years out of date.
1. Change your wife
Times have changed, and men are increasingly experiencing sexual cold violence from women. There are more.
Although you are married, your wife just won’t let you touch her. What excuses are there - no desire, no feeling, pain, too tired...
The man is aside You are so anxious that your sperm is on your mind, but your wife is indifferent to your sexual needs. Even if she agrees to you, she looks disgusted during the process of doing things. This kind of experience makes it difficult for people to feel pleasure.
If you have been married for a short time, you can consider divorcing and find a wife whose sexual needs match. After all, if a man faces a sexually frigid wife in a marriage, it is easy for him to have trouble.
2. Sexual frigidity is a disease
Methods to determine whether your wife is sexually frigid:
Judging from feeling: no interest, not wanting to have sex
Judging from frequency: less than 2 times a month
Judging from physiology: no heartbeat/breathing caused by sexual impulse Acceleration/Vaginal no secretion of love juice/No orgasm
Judging from emotions: boredom, anger, fear, guilt, shame, contempt and other emotions towards sex
Judging from experience: Wife Is she frigid towards you or towards everyone else? (She just doesn’t want to do it with you...)
Related diseases that can easily cause frigidity:
1. Mental illness, common The psychological disease is postpartum depression, which has a complicated cause. According to psychiatrists, the rate of potential depression in sexually frigid female patients can reach up to 26%.
2. Diabetes and diabetic vascular disease lead to reduced vaginal secretions, reduced lubrication, dryness and pain during sexual intercourse. Neuropathy weakens the sensitivity of nerve endings in the vaginal wall, making it difficult to stimulate orgasm.
3. Thyroid disease. The thyroid gland is an endocrine organ that secretes thyroid hormones. When thyroid function is reduced, the secretion of thyroid hormones decreases, and male hormones (Male) hormones) also decreases, causing frigidity.
4. Menopause. With the arrival of menopause in women, physiological functions will be significantly reduced. Reduced estrogen levels will reduce vaginal secretions and make the vagina dry. At the same time, vaginal cells will become thinner and elasticity will decrease, resulting in sexual intercourse. pain.Then they become afraid of sex and become indifferent.
3. Self-spiritual castration
If you can’t change the world, then change yourself.
Perform mental castration on yourself. Don’t think about sexual matters. Instead, use this time on family harmony and personal improvement. Do more housework and talk with your wife. In these You can also experience happiness in the process.
In addition to sex, there are many important things to do, including commitments to your family and commitments to yourself.
Sex consumes a lot of your time and energy, so some people are willing to invest their time in more valuable things. In fact, you yourself know that when you really have an important goal in life, your sexual needs will definitely be given a lower priority, right?
