Many people say that whether a relationship can continue or not is generally known within three months. Why is there such a statement? Is three months really a hurdle for love? Let me analyze for you why it is said that relationships will end in three months? On what basis?
One or three months is enough to get to know each other
If you have known a girl for three months, then you will get to know her true face in these three months. Maybe when you first get to know a girl, she gives you the impression that she is amazing. Then if you continue to contact her for three months, you may find her amazing shortcomings, or her amazing cuteness and playfulness. Your liking for her may be mediocre. Everything will undergo quantitative accumulation and eventually lead to qualitative changes. But in the end you will decide whether this relationship will continue or end here.
Of course, if you meet a veteran in love, and if she is very good at pretending, then it is simply unrealistic to get to know her in three months, and you may not be able to get to know her even if you give her another three years. I can't see through it, so it depends on the person to say that the relationship will be resolved after three months!
2. The three-month running-in period of love
The first three months of love between two people is the sweet period. , at this time, neither of them will pay attention to the problems that arise in the relationship. Even if they encounter problems, they will take a step back. But if a problem exists, it must be solved. Blind avoidance is not the solution. After three months of dating, neither party is so tolerant of the other person, and problems will easily surface at this time. At this time, both people should analyze themselves honestly, not avoid problems, and actively face and solve problems.
After the three-month running-in period of a relationship, if two people can coordinate every small conflict, it will not only solve a possible cause of conflict, but also enhance their relationship because of the open communication between the two people. If the conflict is not resolved, it will only make the other person feel that you are not capable of falling in love, and you will not only take care of yourself, but also bear the pressure you bring. When the conflict between you is enough to defeat the newly established relationship, the word "breakup" appears.
Summary: The saying that a relationship will be resolved in three months is not groundless, but has a certain factual basis. Because as the two people spend more and more time together, each other's shortcomings are gradually exposed. Different personalities will often cause you to have conflicts and quarrels. In many cases, you even resort to a cold war to avoid getting along. And with the pressure of life and considerations about the future, there will be a lot of worries and thoughts. When two people disagree, it's easy to break up. Therefore, three months of dating is the period with the highest breakup rate. We must learn to take precautions beforehand and take effective measures decisively to stop losses in a timely manner.
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