It is very common for boys to chase girls, but some boys are always prone to making mistakes that make girls resent them. Let’s take a look at the common mistakes boys make when chasing girls.
1. Disrespect for girls
Some boys always disrespect girls’ wishes when pursuing them and ideas, to forcefully express one's love, which will make girls feel that their rights and dignity have been violated.
2. Being too proactive
Although it is said that you need to be more proactive in pursuing girls, being too proactive can also make girls feel stressed and troubled. If you're constantly texting, calling, or showing up unexpectedly to a girl, she might think you're being too enthusiastic.
3. Impatient
Pursuing girls requires patience and perseverance, but some boys lack this quality. They are always eager for success and hope to get a response from the girl as soon as possible. Doing this will only alienate the girl from you further.
4. Lack of self-confidence
Lack of self-confidence is one of the reasons why many boys fail to pursue girls. If you always show low self-esteem and lack of confidence, then the girl will feel that you are not capable of protecting her and taking care of her.
5. Not sincere enough
Pursuing girls requires sincerity and frankness, but some boys always lie or hide their true thoughts. Doing this will only make the girl lose trust in you.
6. Ignore girls’ feelings
When pursuing girls, many boys will ignore girls’ feelings and needs. They only care about their own feelings and needs, forgetting that girls also have their own thoughts and emotions.
7. Too dependent on girls
When some boys pursue girls, they rely too much on them and hope that they will be everything in their lives. Doing so will only make the girl feel stressed out and unable to take on the responsibility.
When pursuing girls, boys need to pay attention to the above mistakes. Respecting girls, being moderately proactive, being patient and perseverant, being confident and sincere, paying attention to girls' feelings and needs, and not being overly dependent on girls are all necessary conditions for successfully pursuing girls.
