Two people who have a crush on each other will develop many unusual tacit understandings because of their tacit love for each other. People usually try to cater to the person they like in front of them. Lovers tend to form a performative personality and strive to show behaviors that are more worthy of attention in the next catering. To do this, they need to unconsciously perform some characteristics that they do not possess.
Schr?dinger's "Get Out", that is, when a girl tells you to get out, you never know whether she is really asking you to get out or if she is coming to hug you tightly. At this time, you are in a situation of hugging you tightly and getting out. Quantum mechanical state. If you don't care about love, love will exist. If you study love, the research results will be biased by observation behavior.
Tacit understanding one: care for each other
When you have a crush on someone, the crush is in the position of an observer , he/she will always pay attention to the other person's behavior, language, expressions, and movements. If the secret admirer does not observe with a secret love mentality, then all the other party's performances will not appear so special. It is precisely because of the observation behavior of the secret love mentality , thus resulting in the "favorability" of the observation results. This is why people who have a crush on each other always have a tacit understanding of caring for each other.
Tacit understanding two: happy mood
When people with a crush get along, they will feel happy and enjoy getting along with each other. wonderful feeling. This kind of wonderful time makes both lovers secretly rejoice and reminisce. But when two friends of the opposite sex with an ordinary relationship are together, they will not feel this way. It is precisely because the observer's observation method adds a certain emotion - love, that causes the observer to feel different emotional experiences.
Tacit understanding three: Resist embarrassment
Because people with secret admirers will feel embarrassed and flustered when facing their sweetheart. , nervousness, uneasiness and other strange emotions, so they will resist this embarrassment when two people are alone, and try to shorten or avoid the time they spend together. When an observer observes with a certain mood, the results of love he sees will also change accordingly.
