Many boys are not unwilling to fall in love, but they feel that love is getting more and more tiring. They can no longer find the sweet and exciting feeling at the beginning. They have no interest in love and have no expectations. As a result, more and more boys now She said she was too tired to talk about love. So do you know why boys feel tired when they are in love? Today I will mainly discuss this issue with you.

Why do you feel tired when you are in love?

1. The prevalence of feminism

In recent years, boys have become more and more tired when it comes to relationships. Nowadays, there are more and more so-called feminist bloggers on the Internet. Public opinion is obviously biased towards boys having to pamper girls. Feminism is prevalent, which has given rise to many abnormal relationships. Like whether a man loves you or not depends on how much he is willing to spend for you. It is the woman who pays for the child, and it is not you who loves it. What qualifications do you have to let me give birth?

Whenever there is a conflict between men and women, such a situation will inevitably occur. Both boys and girls will think that a boy should take the initiative to take the blame. Coaxing girls to be happy, even if it turns out that girls are more at fault, puts more and more pressure on boys. Even small problems and misunderstandings that often occur between couples, no matter how small the pressure accumulates, will make boys breathless. In the end, It will also cause the relationship between both parties to become increasingly tired or even explode.

2. Many girls are unreasonable.

Many girls are unreasonable when they encounter problems. They can only say "you don't love me at all, you are a scumbag", and boys are just like that. You will face a lot of pressure. Not to mention the mountains of mortgage, car loan and work pressure that weigh heavily on boys. The pressure in life is not enough to crush any boy. Often, what really crushes a boy is the woman he loves most. In terms of material aspects of life, no matter how hard or tiring the work is, boys are fulfilled because they can see the fruits of their hard work.

But this is not the case in love life. When a girl is angry, sometimes no matter how hard the boy tries to coax him, he will not see any results. This kind of effort without any positive feedback is the most painful and tiring. . Therefore, it is becoming more and more difficult to walk in a relationship, and boys who are getting more and more tired are not willing to fall into it anymore. Those who show off to girls whether they love you or care about you are all to indirectly promote girls. It's just a status. If a girl does something, it can be called loving you, but if a boy does it, it can only be called pretending to be a bitch. It’s an old double standard.

In fact, it is the same whether it is a boy or a girl. Both parties are the treasures of their parents. There is no need to humiliate yourself to please others just because of love. , Two people who truly love each other will naturally understand each other. In love, both parties must actively maintain their relationship. If there is a conflict, speak out and discuss and resolve it together. Communication is always the best way to resolve conflicts. If communication fails, I suggest brothers , no matter how uncomfortable it is, you should get out in time and stop the loss in time.

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