Some boys have no money and average looks, but they have a good girlfriend by their side. Others are in good condition, but can never find a girlfriend. Even if they learn many tricks and work hard to pursue it, they can’t find one. I couldn't find a girl, so I sighed like why I couldn't find a girlfriend if others could.
In fact, if a boy cannot find a girlfriend, it may not be because of the way he pursues girls. The root cause lies within themselves. Let me take you through the reasons why a boy finds a girlfriend.
Others can find girlfriends, why can’t I find them?
1. Stay at home
If you want to find a girlfriend, of course you have to go out and take the initiative to meet girls. . Even if you are looking for a girlfriend online, there is still a step out the door, but otakus are people who don't even want to take this step, and even online dating will end in vain. If a nerd wants to find a girlfriend, you must first get to know more girls. Through contact and understanding between both parties, you can know whether the other person is their favorite person or whether the other person likes you. Only in this way can you have a chance to find a girlfriend. If boys don't go out and they have almost no relationships with girls, it's hard to find a girlfriend and impossible to conjure one up out of thin air.
2. Self-centered
To be self-centered is, at best, a macho idea; at worst, it is selfish. Women always need to obey their opinions. It is also difficult to find a girlfriend. For example, if you go on a blind date and chat with a girl, you will have to obey my parents from now on. If you get married, you can't ask for too many conditions...Baba, the girl will be scared away by you.
3. Have bad habits
If a boy likes to drink, and the wine is not very good, drink He tends to become violent, throwing things and hitting people. In other words, a boy likes to gamble and is deeply involved in gambling every day, unable to extricate himself. Even his life becomes a problem. Or a boy is lazy and doesn't pay attention to dressing up when he meets a girl... Boys with such naive and bad habits will undoubtedly have a hard time finding a girlfriend, or even find a girlfriend at all.
4. Don’t seek advancement
Many people say that it is not easy for a poor boy to find a girlfriend. In fact, girls don't want to be with a poor boy just because the boy is poor. If a boy is poor and lives with a small salary every day, he never thinks about how to improve his quality of life. I feel like it would be too tiring if it was any more complicated. If a girl is with such a boy, she will feel that there is no hope, and naturally she will not want to.
5. Mother
If a boy is more coquettish than a girl and is more shy than a girl, this kind of boy may be liked by gay men, but it would be too difficult to get a little girl to accept you, okay? When something happens, she doesn't know whether to rely on herself or you. But relying on you seems unreliable.
