Urging marriage is a problem that many single young people are facing now. Especially when they go home during the holidays, not only their parents will urge marriage, but also various aunts and uncles will join the ranks of urging marriage, which makes people Too annoying. So how should you deal with family members urging you to get married?
1. Methods to deal with urging marriage
1. Take the initiative to explain the situation
Before your parents or relatives urge you to get married, you should take the initiative to explain your situation, report your study and work situation for the past year in detail, and then tell them that you are on a blind date or have plans to get married, so as to directly avoid the other party's push for marriage.
2. Use prop instructions
The ring will be a good prop, so you can prepare a ring in advance and wear it. When the elders urge you to get married, you can say that you already have a lover. , and this is a couple ring.
3. Change the topic
When faced with the urge to get married, immediately bring the topic to popular TV series, square dancing and homely choreography, and be sure not to bring it back to yourself.
4. Ask other people questions first
Before relatives ask questions, be preemptive and counter-attack. Before asking questions, ask: Has your daughter made friends? Has she gotten married? Has she prepared a house for her children to get married? Has she bought a new car? When she faces this series of questions, she will be able to feel how you feel. This will prevent them from urging you to get married.
2. Humorous sentences to deal with family members urging marriage
1. If I have to make do with it, when I am 30 years old, do you hope that I will not be married yet, or that I will be divorced? .
2. I like good men (good women) like my dad (my mom). If you know a young man (little girl) who is better than my dad (my mom), please introduce him to me. !
3. I don’t need to be praised by others, I am praised by myself.
4. If you get married in such a makeshift manner and love cannot be cultivated, something will go wrong sooner or later, because it is too tiring to live with someone who has a weak emotional foundation and inconsistent thinking.
5. If you are tall, rich and handsome, you must have a girlfriend; if you are a big boss, you must be a playboy; if you are a workaholic, you obviously do not care about your family.
6. I already have a male (female) friend, but he is not divorced yet. (Usually you will be advised to break up at this time, and then you can live a more stable life)
7. I found a girlfriend, but she is still studying and is too young.
8. There are too few reliable boys (girls) nowadays. You see, I heard that my cousin (cousin) broke up with another one.
9. There are several people chasing me, and they are all veryExcellent, it’s really hard to choose!
10. Who doesn’t have a few spare tires these days!
