In fact, whether you are a boy or a girl, you will have your own standards when choosing a mate. Maybe everyone's standards will be different, but together they still have a lot in common. Let’s analyze for everyone what are the five most important points in girls’ mate selection criteria? I hope the boys can understand.
Girls’ mate selection criteria
Girls’ mate selection criteria can be summed up in one sentence: character is the main priority, and material conditions are secondary.
1. Character standards
I won’t say much about character, but I will mention a few points. Something someone can notice: the bad nature of people. When girls look at a man's character, they will focus on the man's good qualities. When a man's character meets the standards of a woman, women may only see the man's advantages.
But there are some real-life cases:
A good man who is kind and filial and takes good care of his wife and children may beat his wife when he is drunk;
A shrewd and capable man may plot against the other person in marriage;
A man who spends a lot of money outside may also treat his wife to be picky;
To his own parents Being filial does not mean that you will also be filial to your partner's elders.
This is human nature.
Therefore, when choosing a mate, girls will not only look at character, but also observe a man’s bad qualities, because no matter how a woman examines a man’s character, some things will be deeply hidden. Deep in a person's heart, waiting for some day or opportunity, it will be opened and released.
2. Material Standards
Women have material requirements when choosing a mate. This is actually understandable. After all, no one wants to wander around without even a fixed residence after getting married. Therefore, instead of complaining that girls' material requirements are too high, men should examine themselves to see if they are not working hard enough or fighting hard enough to keep the girls they like.
When you have a sufficient financial foundation one day, and you have the confidence to pursue a girl you like, the material conditions the girl asks for will not matter to you (you are the kind of girl with a big mouth like a lion) Still have to stay away), you will find that staying away from finding a girlfriend is just that.
3. Appearance standards
In fact, both men and women have some appearance associations, so girls also look at appearance when choosing a mate. In fact, it doesn’t mean how handsome a boy is. Whether he is fat or thin is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that he must not be sloppy or slovenly. As long as he meets a girl, he needs to dress up, dress cleanly and neatly, and his whole body will look good. It just seems refreshing.
