Many people are relatively insecure in relationships, always worried about gains and losses, and always like to find all kinds of evidence to prove the other person’s love. In fact, this is understandable. Who would want to be with someone who doesn’t love themselves? What about life. So how do you judge whether the other person really loves you?
1. Will he take the initiative to talk to you about the future?
Whether you are married or in love, when you are together, you will definitely think about each other's future life, and a person who truly loves you will not let you live with him or her.
If you are not married yet, then he will take the initiative to tell you about his work plans and his financial situation after marriage.
And how will you live in the future, how will you face your parents, and how will you get married.
He will consider which school to go to if you have children in the future, what about one child, or two children. He will not make you worry and anxious about the future too much.
On the contrary, if he doesn’t love you that much, he won’t even think about spending a lifetime with you.
Then he usually won’t talk about these things. After all, he knows that there is no future, so he doesn’t have to invest too much time and energy.
2. Will he deceive you emotionally?
I once came across such a case. While working, she met a man who understood her.
They have been together for two years and have reached the point of talking about marriage.
But at this moment, the man’s wife, whom he had already married, came to the door and told the girl that they had a very good relationship and had never thought about divorce.
The girl seemed to have been beaten with a stick. The man kept saying that he was single and that the girl was his true love.
But in the end, the girl realized that her feelings were just a spice in his life.
People who truly love you will not deceive you in the name of "true love" just to satisfy their own desires.
3. Will it allow you to integrate into the social circle?
Apart from family and partners, the most important thing in our lives is People are friends. It can be said that real good friends are our unrelated family members.
So when a person truly loves you, he will definitely take you to meet his friends.
Let you know about his past experiences and let you see how he interacts and gets along with his friends.
Because he hopes you can understand him more comprehensively.
4. Will he stand on your side?
Especially in front of outsiders, he will not let you lose face, let alone help outsiders. Accusing you.
As long as you don’t go too far or make a principled mistake, he will save you enough face.
Because he knows that he can do it now. What I give you is unconditional preference, using my own preference to eliminate all the uneasiness and anxiety in your relationship.
Because he loves you, he is willing to tolerate everything about you and not let you get hurt at all. .
