Question: I have known a girl for a month. Recently, we have been chatting every day. She even said good night to me at night, but the girl never takes the initiative to chat with me. Is it ambiguous for men and women to say good night to each other? How can you know what a girl is thinking?
Answer:
1. You have the possibility of further development
As can be seen from the above text, I can be sure that "you have fallen in love with her." , otherwise you wouldn’t want to know what girls really think.
Does that girl like you? To be honest, if she can chat with you every day and say good night to you for more than a month, she must not reject you. Otherwise, she would have no patience to continue chatting with you. So rest assured, there is a possibility for your relationship to develop further.
2. You still have to work hard
Does the girl like you? This is really not necessarily true. To be honest, it's a bit heartbreaking, but don't panic. I told you that you have a chance and may develop a relationship with her. But as you said yourself, she never takes the initiative to chat with you, which means you have to work harder. Why?
Because the love brain circuits of men and women are different. Men think in a straight line and women think in a curve. Men's way of dealing with relationships is straight forward. They think that only if they like someone they will chat with them every day and respond enthusiastically. Otherwise, there would be so much to talk about. But women always have to think carefully when dealing with relationships. For her, chatting is just a process of understanding and examining boys.
If you only judge whether she likes you based on her attitude when chatting, then you are likely to suffer a big loss. If you confess your love to her with confidence, you will probably get an innocent rejection from her.
3. What should you do specifically?
You clearly feel that a girl has a crush on you, but you She made a question mark appear on my forehead. I don't know what she meant?
In fact, once you successfully pass the test of a girl, she will no longer be reluctant to take the initiative to chat with you. You must seize this rare opportunity and make it a habit for her to take the initiative to chat with you.
Women have the strongest desire to talk, but they are too defensive and it is difficult to meet someone who can feel confident talking. She is always looking forward to the appearance of this person, and your task is to turn yourself into the person she is most willing to share with.
At first, she just wanted to talk to you to kill time. Later, she would seek your advice because of some dissatisfaction. Later, she would tell you as soon as possible no matter what happened. Finally, she I even tell you what time I wake up and what time I go to bed.
When it reaches this level, create an ambiguous relationship. Give her a unique nickname and intersperse some affectionate words during the chat., send some emoticons that are only used between lovers, and let her realize that you are not just her best friend who talks about everything, but you are the best candidate for her to develop into a boyfriend.
