A situation where a girl likes a boy but the boy does not like the girl yet. If both parties like each other, then there is a high probability that they don’t need to bother pursuing each other.
How do girls chase boys?
First of all, I am very sure of this attitude of girls. If you like it, you should Take the initiative to fight for it, otherwise you are still waiting to be her bridesmaid?
Specifically when it comes to pursuing someone, there are a few strategies:
1. Show yourself. Look for more opportunities to show off your strengths in front of the other party. You can show what you are good at by mentioning it intentionally or unintentionally, or through social media. The core message conveyed is: I am so good!
2. Create more opportunities to get along with each other. The possibility of falling in love at first sight depends first on appearance, and secondly on random factors such as weather, environment, atmosphere, etc. For most people, they will still find each other through long-term relationship. Therefore, think about whether there are any opportunities to meet and get along with the other person more, and it is perfectly fine to take the initiative to find opportunities to make an appointment.
3. Affirm the other party. People are more likely to like people who appreciate them. You should proactively and boldly express your affirmation and appreciation to the other person.
You should also pay attention to the taboos when chasing boys:
1. Avoid chasing after you. There is a process for feelings to occur. Don't tell the other person "I like you, I really like you" from the beginning. This will put pressure on the other person. Moreover, leaving a little blank space and suspense will attract people. Giving spoilers to the other party from the beginning will also make the other party lose some of the fun of testing and gaming.
2. Avoid selfless pursuit. Some girls may think that as long as I always treat him well, one day he will be moved, even if he is a stone, he will turn into stone. But true love is the mutual attraction of souls and values. Just "being good to you" may work for a while, but it will have no effect in the long term, and may even make the heart tired. (This article is also very applicable to men pursuing women)
3. Avoid looking for teachers and friends to pursue. When some girls meet a boy they like, they may immediately ask their girlfriends and friends for advice, as if they can come up with a big move if they get a martial arts secret book. In fact, there are thousands of tricks. Sincerity is the most important thing. The experiences and ideas of others may not be suitable for you. Don't follow the routine, let alone get a group of relatives and friends to fan the flames and help chase. Love is a very personal thing. You should focus on experience and find a love path that suits you.
Finally, no matter what, you must be confident. If you have worked hard and tried a lot, but you still haven't succeeded, it can only mean that the two people are not suitable for each other, but it does not mean that you are not good, or that you are not worthy of others' love. The result of chasing is not important. What is important is whether you have become a better person in the process and whether you have improved your ability to pursue love, express love, and accept love.
