Nowadays, WeChat dating is very convenient, and it is easy for us to add strange girls. But after adding her to WeChat, how can you catch her? In fact, it requires a little skill. Some boys can't let go when talking to girls and don't know how to chat. Now I will teach you some tips on chatting and flirting with girls on WeChat.
If it is a girl you have just met, you can create a topic and guide her to chat with you. For example, if you understand what she likes through observation, or discuss it with her, or pretend that you don't understand and she does, and ask about something, as long as she doesn't resent you, she will definitely be willing to tell you your problems. Therefore, be sure not to find topics that are too cliché. You must arouse the girl's curiosity, or successfully ask questions to attract her attention.
If a boy is too serious when chatting, girls will think you are boring. Therefore, when chatting with girls, boys should behave playfully, not follow routines, and answer girls' questions. Don't be too routine when asking questions, but be unexpected. This will make the girl interested in getting to know you. Here are four key points for chatting:
1. Choose according to the environment
The smooth progress of each conversation is inseparable from the environment they are in at that time.
Therefore, choosing the corresponding topic through the environment is a very important ability. Intelligent and capable people can make people happy no matter the circumstances are good or bad.
It can also be said that a person who is good at observation and has the ability to handle problems and resolve conflicts is definitely a person who can make girls happy.
2. Curiosity Chatting Method
Curiosity is something that everyone has to some extent, especially things related to ourselves. If the content we talk about is related to ourselves, we should It will generate interest immediately, so when boys chat with girls on WeChat, they can use this method to arouse girls’ curiosity, so that they will become curious and keep asking you questions.
3. Guessing Chat Method
This kind of guessing method does not actually allow you to guess the girl’s thoughts, but to find ways to let the girl guess you. What is the girl’s idea? It's very complicated. If you accidentally guess their thoughts wrongly, they will easily lose their confidence in you, and your original friendly relationship will also be affected.
4. Attitude is everything
When chasing a girl, your attitude is very important. But don't have a "must get" mentality that is too focused on gains and losses. If you fail, it will affect your next relationship.
You must have a normal mind, don’t worry about gains and losses, and you must have confidence in yourself. Relax and treat this relationship naturally! Don't put too much pressure on yourself, and don't put too much pressure on others.
The most important thing about flirting with girls on WeChat is what you sayThey all have to be what girls want to pick up, so that they can keep chatting. On the one hand, you need to make the conversation interesting, and on the other hand, you need to understand the girl's mind. This is not an easy task, but long-term practice can always find the right method.
