Some boys win every time they chase girls, while some boys are always rejected. The difference lies in the method. If you can successfully avoid the misunderstandings of chasing girls, then it will be easy to chase them, but not the other way around. Many boys have made these three misunderstandings, which is why you are still single.
Excessive attentiveness
Many boys chase girls and mistakenly think that when the girl is sick , I am unhappy and have difficulties, you can gain favor by running to comfort her.
In fact, when a man and a woman first get to know each other, excessive concern is a cheap way to court.
Just like in the process of dating, some boys and girls have a meal or two and usually chat on WeChat. This kind of relationship is far from lovers. Caring too much will make her feel redundant, even disgusting.
Then when can you comfort her? Only when she is looking forward to it, and you encourage and comfort her, will it become a surprise and can both of you be touched.
The development of any interpersonal relationship is gradual and cannot happen in one fell swoop. Instead of being polite all of a sudden, it's better to get closer, cultivate a sense of comfort with the girl, wait for the right moment, and get twice the results with half the effort.
Premature Confession
Many boys believe that love should be spoken loudly, and they should bravely confess to the girl they like.
It’s good to have courage, but they don’t understand one thing: the bell of victory, not the horn of charge.
After all, love is a matter between two people. It is not the most important thing that you like her. What is important is that she also likes you and likes you.
If you just let yourself be a girl with wishful thinking, and the likely result is high rejection.
So, whether it’s a date or a blind date, the most important thing in the early stages is to show your charm, don’t express it too early, because if you can’t meet the other party’s requirements or similar, the expression will be in vain of.
Too much reliance on money
As the saying goes: Money is not everything, but it is absolutely impossible to have no money. . Chasing girls, romance, gifts, and dinners are all about money. In order to catch up with the goddess, many boys are not stingy with spending money.
I have a cousin who, in order to chase a girl, maxed out his credit card to buy clothes, bags, and meals. But in the end he had no money, and the girl left.
Not to mention whether girls are money admirers, boys’ love thoughts and behaviors are themselves a problem, because most good girls are not short of rich men.
If you can only rely on money to please her, once you have no money, you will not be qualified to pursue her. In the end, she will give her the impression that she is not independent and incompetent.Weak, incompetent men.
Not everyone is born to be an expert in love, and experience is gained through failure. So don’t give up just because you are rejected for a moment, but you must also learn to stop losses in time. Continuously sum up experience in failure, so that you can have a successful day.
