Being unreasonable and making trouble seems to be a characteristic that many girls have. They always like to make trouble for nothing. Many times they clearly know their own problems, but they just refuse to answer them. Do you know why girls always like to make trouble without reason?
In the millions of years of human evolution, due to the social division of labor between men and women The differences lead to different ways of thinking between men and women. Women like to communicate emotions, while men are good at logical reasoning.
The reason why women make trouble unreasonably is because they want to communicate with you and not really want to solve any problem. If you are thinking rationally to solve problems, it is destined to have no positive effect. The usual result is that you logically defeat the woman, but the woman is still unreasonable and unyielding.
Women have a deep anxiety about beauty. They are very afraid of losing your sincerity when they grow old. Therefore, the unreasonable behavior of girls is a kind of power-affirming behavior. In fact, it is to confirm that her weight on you is still there, not to reason with you. What should a girl do when she makes trouble for no reason?
When a woman makes trouble for no reason, At this time, you should pay attention to the woman's emotions, relax and use your perceptual thinking to change the woman's emotions. Most of the time when you communicate with a woman, you don't need to reason with her or pay attention to her emotions.
Counterexample
Woman: My boss has criticized me recently, so annoying
Straight man: My boss criticizes you because he wants you to improve.
Woman: Listen, I’m getting very angry. Are you going to help me or those stinky leaders?
Positive example
Woman: My boss has criticized me recently, I’m so annoyed
Smart man: This is child labor, let’s kill you with two tomatoes The company is in trouble, give them some color.
Woman: Hahaha
Counterexample
Woman: I just fell down , there are so many people watching, so embarrassing
Straight man: Does it hurt? Should I go to the hospital?
Woman: I’m so annoyed
Positive example
Woman: I just fell down, so many people are looking at me, it’s so embarrassing
Smart man: Oh? Didn’t I take a photo and post it on Moments
Woman: I did
Smart man: If you fall, you will have more material for friends
Woman: Woohoo
Smart man: Come and blow some fairy air, it won’t hurt anymore