Check whether the boy can tell whether the girl is testing or hanging on him. There are many things in common between the two, such as: they will not agree to your pursuit all at once, they will not refuse if they don’t agree, and they will give you hope and give you hope. To disappoint you...it once made many boys want to give up. So how do you know if a girl is testing you or hanging on to you?
1. Talking about the future
If a girl is interested in you, then when she is with you, you can talk about a lot of interesting topics, but not Talk to you about the future. Whenever you talk about the future between the two of you, she will be very repulsive, or just brush it off casually, because she knows very well that she and you have no plans to have a future.
And a girl who tests you will deliberately bring up the topic of the future with you. For example, after she has been in contact with you for a period of time, she will deliberately ask you if you will marry her? What are your plans for the future? She wants to use these tests to see whether your ideas are mature and whether you sincerely treat her. If your answer satisfies her, she will try to accept you.
2. Should I take you to meet friends?
A girl who hangs you will definitely not take you there. Meeting friends, because she just wants to hang out with you for a short time, there is no need to bring you into her circle of friends, otherwise it will be very troublesome if she wants to kick you in the future. So even if you offer to invite her good sisters to have a meal together, she will politely refuse to avoid unnecessary trouble.
If a girl wants to test you, she will take the initiative to take you to meet her best friends, because she wants to see if you can pass the test after meeting her friends. For example, she will observe whether you can be a good person; she and her friends will have a big meal together, and then see if you will pay for it. Whether your performance in front of her friends satisfies her, etc.
3. Taking you shopping
The most important thing for girls to test boys is to see whether they are willing to give up. Spend money for her. If a girl takes the initiative to ask you to go shopping with her, she is trying to test you. But here you need to pay attention. If a girl keeps pestering you to buy things for you, but she doesn't say that she saves you money or buys things for you, she is probably hanging on you.
If a girl asks you to buy her relatively cheap things, or if she asks you to buy her more expensive things, she will give you the same gift in return, then she is Testing whether you are willing to spend money on her.
4. She cares about you
Some girls seem to care about you, but she cares about you. Your care is only superficial, such as saying some caring words to you; telling you to pay attention to your body, telling you to go to bed early, telling youWear more clothes; you seem to feel from her mouth that she cares about you, but in fact she doesn't really care about you at all, so she is actually hanging on to you.
And if a girl doesn’t care about you, but does a lot of things for you in private, whether she hangs you or not, then she actually really likes you.
