It does not mean that everything will be fine when it comes to love. Even if the relationship is confirmed, the relationship still needs to be maintained carefully by both parties in order to last. Here are some unwritten rules of love that you must abide by.
1. Don’t be curious about the other person’s past
Everyone has their own past. A series of past events made him what he is today. If you like him as he is now, don't care about what he has gone through.
Because, in the past, it often carried a certain weight, and you were overly curious and asked. If she spoke in detail, you would be very angry. If she spoke perfunctorily, you would think that she had something ulterior to tell. secret.
Moreover, the past was definitely a nightmare. Once entangled, it would not be so easy to get out of it.
Especially for women, they are particularly curious and like to ask about men’s pasts. If you hesitate, she will be sure that you have a ghost in your heart. You should be frank, and she thinks Your past turned out to be like this. It seems that you can't forget it and won't give you a good look.
Therefore, never bring up topics from the past.
2. Learn to show yourself appropriately
In ancient times, men were responsible for hunting and women were responsible for raising offspring. After After thousands of years of evolution, although some behaviors have undergone radical changes, the ancient seeds left in the genes still exist.
When women choose a mate, they prefer to choose a man who can protect themselves. Having a strong career or a wide network of contacts are actually signs of protection, so these things will make women feel empowered. sense of security.
However, when men choose a mate, they prefer women with good figures and delicate faces, because men tend to make their genes better.
In short, men must learn to properly display their career, motivation, high-quality conditions, etc. in order to maintain their attractiveness.
3. Women need companionship more
Before two people have a confirmed relationship, men especially hope that they can be together every day When meeting a woman, however, after the two parties establish a relationship, men often "change their attitude" and pursue more private space.
A woman’s concern turns into annoying nagging, because for a man, there is still a lot of work to be accomplished in his entire life. Since his girlfriend is already a sure thing, he might as well Pay more attention to other aspects.
However, women are different. They think that bothSince we are lovers, you should think about me, care about me, and accompany me wholeheartedly. Therefore, once you cannot accompany her, she will have various situations.
4. It’s hard to HOLD a woman who is too beautiful
Men all like beautiful women, but if a woman is too beautiful If someone is too beautiful, they will feel uneasy. Why? Because they seriously doubt their ability to hold this woman.
Women want their men to have careers rather than just money. The second generation of rich people are also very rich, but they will not marry them because the second generation gives people a poor sense of security.
