Some girlfriends will have double standards, asking you to pay for her, buy things for her, do this and that for her, but when it is her turn to pay for you, she will find all kinds of reasons and excuses to escape. . Or she wants you to be tolerant and understanding of her, but she ignores your needs and your feelings. If you meet a girlfriend like this, which girlfriend is selfish and do you still need to stick to it?
1. Unequal feelings and selfishness
In fact, unequal feelings in relationships are very common, but most of the time boys don’t care much about it. If you look carefully, you can actually find out how selfish your girlfriend is. place.
For example, if your girlfriend’s birthday is coming soon, and you carefully choose a gift for her, order a cake, buy food and make a more delicious meal for her, she won’t be very surprised when she sees it. But he accepted it as a matter of course. And when it's your turn to celebrate your birthday, the gift she gives you is a cheap belt she bought on the street? notebook? Or it’s just an item she has left unused, let alone preparing dinner for you. If you eat at any restaurant you go to, you may end up footing the bill.
If you meet a selfish girlfriend with unequal feelings, you can only say that she doesn’t love you at all, at least If she doesn't love you as much as you love her, this kind of unequal love will break out sooner or later. Or you can try not to be so attentive to her and let her feel how much you have done for her before. If she protests and says that you have changed, then you can take the opportunity to say that she has treated you in the same way. , this is fair to each other. If she wants you to pay more, then she should also pay the same amount.
If your girlfriend is still selfish to you in the relationship no matter what you do, I advise you to let yourself go and stop persisting. It may take some time to get over it, but after you get over it, When you find a girl who really loves you, you will find that falling in love is a wonderful thing.
2. Selfishness regarding money
We often say that money will spoil a relationship. This is not unreasonable. There are also many people who are selfish in terms of money. They are happy for you to buy for them, but are reluctant to spend money for you.
Of course, girls’ reluctance to spend money may be due to family reasons since they were young. Money is very important and they feel insecure without money. If a girl is really frugal, it doesn't matter. Then she will definitely stop you when you spend money lavishly on her, because she has developed a frugal temperament, so she is reluctant to spend money on you and herself.
But some girls are willing to let you spend money for her. They want you to buy her a mobile phone today, a bag tomorrow, and the day after tomorrow. You spent your savings to buy clothes and cosmetics for her, and she was very unhappy even if you asked her to treat you to a meal when you had no money for food.
Such selfishnessA girlfriend is actually a bit like a gold digger. When you have money to spend on her, she will be obedient to you. Once you cannot satisfy her desire for money, she will show off to you in various ways. For such a girlfriend, if she can't understand you from your point of view and make changes, I suggest you let go.
