Ambiguity is such a haunting thing. Most men and women who are deeply involved in it will mistake ambiguity for love, but it is nothing more than love. It's just a manifestation of ambiguity. So how to deal with the ambiguous period? In my opinion, the most important thing is to stabilize your mentality.
1. Love requires a clear answer
No matter how sweet it is, you need to confirm the relationship with each other before it can be considered together. Don’t think that there are too many things. Go and see how many people have gone to the end without their identity being recognized.
2. In ambiguity, you need to have a good sense of "property" and respect each other
In fact, the ambiguous period is more about understanding, so don't be too upright as an ambiguous partner. As for friends, you don’t have the identity to do or take care of certain things, so you need to pay more attention to communication.
3. Take control of your emotions
Your mentality must be stable. In fact, if you lose your sense of proportion, you will lose your sense of proportion. Then you will seriously affect your mood, because you are always eager to get things beyond the ambiguous period.
4. Excessive devotion due to self-impression
Some people become passionate as soon as they encounter feelings. It’s really a rush. Please use your brain and be restrained. pay.
5. It’s really not that important who takes the initiative
Don’t keep thinking about it in your head If the other person likes you, he should take the initiative to talk to you every day. The relationship between two people is slowly getting closer to each other. It doesn't matter if they are passive and you are active, and you are passive and they are active.
6. Less fantasies and less entanglements
Since you can reach the stage of ambiguity, then there must be a good impression between the two people. When the relationship between the two of you reaches a high point, point, then you will naturally enter the love period.
"Ambiguous period" is not a bad thing, it is a stage that a healthy love relationship will inevitably go through.
Then why do so many people complain about ambiguity? On the one hand, drinking too much chicken soup leads to a cognitive bias that prevents you from thinking proactively; on the other hand, you are eager to ask for something you shouldn’t want. Get what you deserve.
So you have to treat ambiguity correctly and appropriately. After all, you will realize later that it is also the sweetest, most mysterious and most mutually attractive stage for two people to get along.
