If a boy is interested in a girl, he will find an excuse to give her a gift. For example, he will prepare a birthday gift for the girl on her birthday, prepare a small gift for the girl when eating out with the girl, and also prepare a small gift for the girl on Christmas Eve. I prepared an apple gift box... The boy's original intention is to express his feelings, but at this time, if the girl returns the gift, does it mean she refuses? What does it mean when a girl returns a gift?
1. Girls are afraid of feeling indebted
In fact, if a boy gives him a gift, many girls will return the gift, because most girls are afraid of feeling indebted.
Perhaps for boys, it is already very satisfying to make the person you like feel happy because of your efforts. This sense of accomplishment can even make you feel like you don't need anything in return.
But for a girl, she is naturally very happy when someone pays for her. But if a boy keeps giving gifts to girls, and a girl continues to accept gifts from boys unilaterally, the girl will slowly I feel a sense of indebtedness. In fact, girls are quite afraid of feeling indebted. Girls also know that this is not your intention, and girls also understand that rejection will make you feel alienated, but girls will still care about not being able to bear it with you.
It’s really not for girls to distinguish the two of you so clearly. After all, the real relationship should be, I like you, you Understand me, pay for each other, and pay the bills together. The relationship a girl wants is actually conflicting. She wants to have a good relationship with you all the time, but it is precisely after collisions again and again that she can understand the other person better. If you want to give a girl a gift, she will accept it, but a girl doesn’t want it to be a boy giving her gifts all the time. She also wants to pay for you. Therefore, a girl's return gift does not mean rejection. In this case, just accept the girl's return gift, which can be regarded as allowing her to enjoy your efforts as she should.
2. A girl rejects your feelings
Of course, a girl’s return gift also means rejection. For example, if you confess your love to a girl on her birthday and give her a birthday gift, but the confession is rejected. If a girl wants to return a gift to you (it doesn’t mean waiting until your birthday to return a gift, and the amount of the return gift is usually similar to the amount of the gift you gave her), she definitely doesn’t want to have anything to do with you and means to reject you. Because if we can't be lovers, we can still be friends, and the gift is to wish her a happy birthday. There's no need to give a birthday gift in return. If you can't even be friends, just treat them as former friends. (I like this thing because of my wishful thinking. I can't control myself from liking you, and you can't control it, but it's not a fault.) In this case, it is necessary See if you want to continue to like her.
In fact, in most cases, a girl returning a gift does not mean rejection. A girl will only return a gift if she has a good impression of you. If a girl really If you refuse, she will generally not accept gifts from you (except for gold worshipers, who will not only accept gifts, but also accept gifts from you).No matter how much you give or she receives, she will never take the initiative to return a gift), then there is no situation where a girl returns a gift, so it is actually easy to judge a girl’s intention of returning a gift.
