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A couple may be able to talk about everything when they are in love, but after a long time, they seem to talk less and less. Is this normal?
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1. Is it normal for lovers to have nothing to say?

You must know that communication is the basis for maintaining relationships. Lovers Having nothing to say between each other is definitely unhealthy and abnormal. After all, the two of them are together every day and often have nothing to say. Both parties will feel somewhat uncomfortable in their hearts. What should lovers do if they have nothing to say?

2. What should lovers do if they have nothing to say?

Before solving the problem, we must first find the reason for the problem, and there are only two reasons why a pair of lovers have nothing to say:

　(1) There is nothing to say about different views

　(2) Simply not knowing what to say

　If lovers have nothing to say just because they simply do not know what to say In other words, that's easy to solve. You just need to find each other's interests or excitement in life, and get closer to each other's hearts to communicate. Such as traveling, participating in parties and other social activities, thereby creating topics and making your life rich and colorful. At the same time, you can also develop common interests and hobbies, such as running, fitness, etc., which can solve the problems existing between you.

And if it is because of different three views that there is nothing to say, then it will be very troublesome, because it is difficult to change people's three views. As the saying goes: if the three views are not in harmony, it is better to encourage separation rather than reconciliation, because long-term emotional interactions show that the chance of being together is very low for those with different views. Love is not a temporary passion, but a long-term common problem. If this happens, the two of you need to have a talk.

2. Find out whether there is nothing to say temporarily

After we fall in love, we will enter a kind of passion The temporary phase of fading, in which the two of them will not be the same as before. This is a very common phenomenon, so don’t worry too much. This stage won’t last long, as long as you get through it. For this situation, you need to create some passion, such as a break for a while, a break is better than a wedding, and then the passion will come again. In general, don't be anxious at this stage, it will get better slowly.

3. Mentally accept such changes

As mentioned above, this situation is normal Yes, don’t be too eager for success, as this may cause some unexpected consequences. When you are passionate, you will always calm down, becauseOrdinary things, daily necessities, food, rice, oil and salt are the true meaning of life. This is also a process of turning to family affection, forming a state in which each other cannot live without each other.

The relationship between men and women, including later life, requires occasional small blessings. Add seasonings to spice up the flavor of life. The little skills of talking, the occasional little romance, the occasional nostalgia for the past, going through ups and downs together, and being in the same boat through thick and thin can keep love fresh.

When this situation occurs, one of the parties must take the initiative and use some methods to change the situation. Create romance and relive the past. At the same time, you have to keep an eye out to see if the other party has other situations outside, and take precautions before they happen. But if this situation between two people lasts for a long time, then it is really necessary to have a good communication and find out what the other person really thinks. Don't drag on the relationship until it is gone.