For those couples who had to separate because their parents did not agree, if they want to get back together, they need to first determine the true intentions of the other parent's parents before we can conduct more detailed analysis and response methods.
You must first ensure that your significant other really wants to go with you. In this tug of war, , your significant other is the only one who can help you.
If your partner firmly wants to be with you, it’s simple: now, your partner needs to start "non-violent non-cooperation" with his parents - blind dates are okay, but that's Say you don’t feel anything; let me get to know other people of the opposite sex, no problem, but I just don’t like you; I won’t let you two meet, and you won’t talk back, but you still have to meet when you should meet...
Note : It must be "non-violent and non-cooperative" and do not have a head-on conflict with your parents, because if your significant other has a head-on conflict with your parents because of your relationship, it will only further make the other parent hate you even more , I don’t have a good impression of you.
Although the other parent is dissatisfied with you, their child has never made any new relationship progress, and as time goes on, the parents themselves become anxious...the child is older, If this tug-of-war lasts long enough, it will often be one parent who compromises.
But at this time, we also need to give the other parent some steps to step down:
For example, the other parent If you don’t like your academic qualifications, then you can try to take the exam for an on-the-job graduate student. There are many on-the-job graduate students who can take the exam with a college degree, and they are very good;
For example, the other person’s parents don’t like you. If you have a household registration, you can try to get more down payment, or buy more betrothal gifts or dowry when you get married, to show your economic value and make the other parent feel less disadvantaged;
For example Some parents are particularly concerned about whether the two people's zodiac signs are compatible. This is simpler. You can ask a mentor who has a good relationship to help you say a few words, help smooth things over, and give the other parent a psychological comfort...
Does the other parent know that your academic qualifications are very good? Do the other parent know that even so, you may have a registered permanent residence in another place? Do the other parent know these horoscopes? Could something be false?
Even if you know, what can you do? There is no other way. My child is about to be left behind. The people I introduced to my child are all married. What else can they do?
And under appropriate circumstances, they really need to know how to package themselves:
The head of a technology company department,I have a house in the city, I have relatives who work in the government, my parents have a guaranteed pension, I come from a teacher's family, I have a well-established family background, I have a master's degree from a prestigious school;
A small start-up company with 20 people, and a team leader who manages three people; barely enough I was able to afford a small down payment but took on a lot of mortgage loans; I have a distant relative who works as a clerk in a government department; my parents are teachers in a small city in the 18th tier; I am a part-time self-study master's degree student.
These two descriptions are about the same person.
