Many boys are more Buddhist when it comes to finding a partner, so they stay single. Suddenly one day I realized that I should find a girlfriend, but I no longer knew what method to use. So what should you do if you have been single for a long time and want to find a partner?
1. Learn to choose
If There is a person who likes you and a person who you like, and you are asked to choose between the two, which one will you choose? Maybe quite a few people will choose "the person I like" because they feel that this relationship will be interesting only if they like it, and besides, the other person may be moved by them and fall in love with them.
Such boys have their own criteria for choosing a mate, which is understandable. Everyone has the right to pursue them.
Others may choose "the person who likes me", which is not so tiring. . However, you may feel that when you are together, your heartbeat is not strong enough, there is no feeling of heart pounding, and there is no feeling of love. Nine times out of ten, life will be unsatisfactory, and there is not so much the best of both worlds. Whether it's the one you love or the one who loves you, it's actually the same. For you who have been single for a long time, you should no longer insist on finding someone you like, but the other person has no feelings for you at all. Choose the right one and try to be the one that the other person thinks is right for you. This is the best and most important thing.
2. Face yourself
If you have been single for a long time and want to find a girlfriend quickly, you also need to face yourself How much is it worth? Clearly know what price and status you have in the love market. You can learn to evaluate and rate yourself: when you brush your teeth and wash your face in the morning, look in the mirror and rate yourself;
Take off your clothes and rate your figure;
< p> Open your wallet and rate your finances;Think back to the past and rate your tastes and preferences.
Then write down a score you expect to achieve after each item. Through specific numerical methods, you can not only face yourself and evaluate yourself, but also use this method to understand yourself more clearly and understand your own shortcomings. Make up for the improvement.
As long as you succeed in something that reaches the score line you expect, then you will succeed and you will make progress. You are closer to being single. Maybe you’ve seen the words “don’t give in” in various chicken soups. From a macro perspective, it is right to "not make do with it", but if you are single, then you must not not make do with it, but be cruel to yourself. This kind of cruelty is a way of treating yourself well and treating your future self. Good!
3. Let yourself shine
As a boy who has been single for a long time, youHave you ever thought about why those boys who also choose Buddhism and butterfly nature like you can be single, but you can't?
When people choose a mate, they choose not only actual material things, but also What is important is the soul, or to put it another way - the sparkle.
There was a popular saying in the past, good-looking skins are all the same, but interesting souls can only be picked out. If you want to turn yourself into a boy with an interesting soul, then you need to have a shining point so that girls can see the shining point in you, and then girls will be attracted to you.
Those who are of the same Buddhist type as you can attract girls because they have their own shining points. And you didn't, so you have been single until now. And if you've been single for too long, you don't even know how to show your shining points to girls.
So, if you are a career-oriented boy, you spend most of your time at work and have little time to accompany girls. When you chat, you just talk about work. If the person you want to pursue is a family-oriented girl, then you may be considered by the girl as a person who doesn't care about your family and doesn't care about her. Then why don’t you turn your attention to a career-oriented woman like you? If you insist on her, then why don’t you spend more time with her, spend more time with her, and develop your common interests and hobbies?</ p>
If you are a gentle and considerate little puppy, very dependent on the girl you like, and your partner is a strong woman, very independent, and does not like to be together all day long. Then you may be considered as having no independent opinions and being immature. Naturally, such girls will not be attracted to you. Then why don't you turn your attention to a gentle little girl like you? As mentioned above, if she has to be the one, then why don't you establish yourself as a mature and independent boy who has his own pursuits?</ p>