When chasing a girl, chatting is the most important part and the key to attracting her. But most boys suffer from not knowing how to chat. After adding girls on WeChat, they don’t know what to talk about, and in the end they can only let this opportunity go to waste.
Today, the editor will share with you a set of screenshots of chat records to tell you what to chat about after you have just added a girl on WeChat.
1. Opening remarks
When you first add a girl to WeChat, try to use a simple message as your opening statement instead of Some pretty fancy opening lines. Because:
First: Sincerity and low sense of need
Second: Can quickly understand each other, get closer, and eliminate the initial sense of strangeness
Third: See if your circle of friends can pass the girl test
2. Start the topic
When we understand that girls have a certain interest in us, we can start the topic. It should be noted here that the topic must be something that girls can take up. Don't let the topic get cold feet before it even starts.
Therefore, we can start with the topic of zodiac signs. After all, zodiac signs are of great interest to most girls.
Here we used the topic "Gemini seems to be very positive and adaptable." The girl's reply was "You know it very well." From this reply, the girl can also feel that There is some interest.
Then, when the girl said, "Look how I am," I said, "Look, you look just like me." This is a way of replying to get closer, using "you" and "me" Put it together, and the girl's emotions responded better. During the chat, you must learn to subtly promote the relationship between you and the girl, such as using "How about we", which can also achieve this effect in the initial chat
Then, the girl says "Thank you, I will lend you "Good luck", the next thing I use is "If I want to reply you in authentic Northeastern dialect, I must drop~". Function: It brings an interesting feeling to girls, because words like "must drop~" can put it in the girl's mind at once As you can imagine, it invisibly adds some joy.
Secondly, because my address on WeChat is Chengdu, and I reply in this way, it will also make girls curious. She will think to herself, "Isn't your WeChat address Chengdu? Why are you in the Northeast?" ", function: to further arouse girls' curiosity, and
The girl now feels a little confused and full of curiosity, asking "Are you from the Northeast?"
I didn’t rush to answerThis question, because when we chat with girls, we should try to avoid a question-and-answer chat method. When faced with girls’ questions, we can further whet the other party’s appetite, or we can say “guess”. Here I use "Does it look similar?" This tone will make you feel less needy than saying "guess".
The girl replied that it looked similar, but in fact I was not. Faced with her doubts, I told her where I was from. But here’s a key point: after telling me where I was from, I added “You probably haven’t been there.”
There is a reason here, that is, if I just say the name of a place, the chat will become very boring, and it will make it difficult for girls to answer the next reply, so I added The sentence "You must have never been there," raised a topic for the girl to pick up the conversation better. In the process of chatting with girls, many boys often become topic terminators for this reason. If it is difficult for girls to answer your words, girls will naturally not be able to continue chatting with you.
When I told her where I was from, the girl asked me which city I was from. In the same way, after replying with the city, I also added "A place that I don't want to go to if I love spicy food." , Only in this way can girls easily pick up the conversation, feel that chatting with us is natural, and feel that there is something to talk about when chatting with us. This is a top priority. Many brothers often feel that there is no topic to chat with girls, or that girls do not take the initiative to start topics. In fact, the problem lies in such details.
3. Change the topic
When chatting with girls, we should not get stuck in a single topic. Because it is easy to finish talking about a single topic at once, and then become exhausted. Learn to change the topic to something related to you, so that you can keep chatting with girls and make girls feel comfortable talking to you.
From the top “eat spicy food” to “just like Chongqing hot pot, some are incredibly spicy”. Girls have been to Chongqing, so they are very familiar with this topic, and they chatted with girls about food. Yes, it is also a very good topic.
The girl did not continue this topic, but asked me "What are you doing in Chengdu?" When girls ask us questions, it can be seen that girls are interested in us. Maybe most brothers know it. This principle.
However, another thing worth mentioning is that when girls ask us questions, it is actually a good opportunity to show ourselves. Secondly, girls asking us questions is also a test. Because there must be no shortage of boys around a good girl, right? Then when they face boys, they need to make a choice to see if they match or not, whether they can get along, whether their values ??and outlook on life are similar, so they will ask questions , certain tests will be conducted on boys.
I replied “I stayed after graduating from college and didn’t leave.” Among them, “I didn’t leave.”"Taking it off" can also arouse girls' curiosity, and they will feel confused and ask why. Secondly, such a reply also serves as a pavement for the next display.
4. Character display
WeChat chat Among them, there are many traits that can attract girls: ambition, romance, filial piety, careerism, taste in life, social status, fun and humor, adventurous spirit, sense of responsibility, responsibility, etc... So be sure to focus on the above. Demonstration of these qualities
In the last screenshot of the chat, I demonstrated the characteristics of self-motivation: I said "Graduate from college and find a job in Chengdu" , and then started your own business." This will make girls think that you are a motivated and hard-working boy. This trait can also give girls a sense of security.
Girls' interest is getting bigger and bigger, and they are becoming more and more interested. I asked a lot of questions, and after answering them, I took the initiative to ask the girl, "How about you?" When we were chatting with a girl and she was interested, we should not still think in my mind that I have to control my needs, because I already clearly felt that When a girl is interested, we must also send out our own interest signals to the other party. Why, because the interests must be similar to attract each other, otherwise the girl will think that you are not interested in her, and she will not ask for trouble to chat with you.
Since the space is limited, the conversation in the chat record below will not be analyzed by Yiyi. If you want to know more detailed WeChat chat skills, you can scan the QR code at the end of the article for consultation.
5. In the process of chatting with girls, the prerequisite for getting closer to girls is that the girls are interested in us. Then when the girls are interested, we will do it in time. Try to get closer. 6. Keep the chat interesting
The overall chat should maintain an interesting atmosphere. Even if the previous chat is very good, it may be because of I lost interest in the next chat because I haven’t known the girl for a long time, so this is the most important thing.
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7. Active evacuation
Let’s pay attention to the chat time. We chat from 9 o’clock in the evening on WeChat until close to nightAt 12 o'clock, we have been chatting for a long time. At this time we must learn to evacuate proactively.
Only in this way can you effectively control your sense of need. A low sense of need can make girls less defensive and more able to open up to you. It can also make girls feel that you are different from other men, and other men may It's a sticky chat, but I take the initiative to end the chat, which can make girls think you are different and you won't get entangled;
At the same time, it can also give you a sense of mystery, which is a major source of attraction. . If you are like a blank piece of paper, few people will have the desire to explore you further, but if you are colorful, most people will be more curious and interested in you.