Nowadays, many boys like to use WeChat to meet girls, but after chatting with them for a while, they will find that there is no progress or they will be blocked. Mainly because you made the following four mistakes during chatting, which will make girls dislike you.
Send messages frequently. Although sending messages is free, a girl hopes that the message you give her is valuable. Most people’s opening remarks may be like this: Are you there, what are you doing, what are you busy with, have you eaten... these are the daily routines of life. When two people just get to know each other, girls will respond, but if you want to win the girl's favor, these words will inevitably be a bit weak, and it will be annoying if you read them too much. Sending messages to a girl too frequently will subtly communicate to the girl that you have a crush on this girl, which will greatly eliminate the uncertainties in love. On the one hand, you always want to get her response, and you keep sending messages, showing your strong sense of need. On the other hand, girls feel that they have conquered you in this way, and they will be more confident. The social value between you will not be equal, and you will be more passive in the future.
Secondly, I often post selfies. A survey found that good-looking girls like to take selfies very much, while ordinary-looking girls are more willing to share their life experiences. There has been no movement in the boys' Moments, it is very quiet, and some people even never check the Moments. If you often post selfies, girls will think you are a narcissistic person. You always live in your own will and may ignore her feelings. Is it really so harmful? A street photography column once conducted such a survey, and most of the girls agreed: unacceptable. If you don’t believe it, you can ask a female friend around you to see what she thinks about this matter.
Third, don’t leave frequent messages on her feed. Although you care about her very much and want to know her every move, and you will know every update she posts immediately, but please do not make your presence known. We can learn about her emotions, preferences, lifestyle habits, etc. through her updates, which can easily make the chat more interesting and have common topics. But don’t give every post your likes. This will also instantly make a girl think that you like her. Sometimes when she thinks about it, she feels horrified, as if someone is watching her. The most important thing is that this behavior completely exposes your emotional needs. You have no mystery about her, and she will not fall in love with you easily.
Fourth, never use chat software to express your love. Confession is the establishment of a relationship, not a means to chase girls. Since ancient times, many confessions have failed because the relationship is not yet in place. Confessing love via instant message? It feels so bad. After watching "Passing Through Your World", this is how Yanzi and Zhutou broke up: After all, breaking up is a big deal, and it seems a bit perfunctory to say it on the phone, so it is better to say it in person. Same reason, if you like a girl, don't be in a hurry to confess your love, let alone confess it in a chat software. It has no sense of ceremony and seems very casual. It won't have any effect, and if not, it will ruin your relationship with the girl, and you will always feel so uncomfortable when you get along with her later. What to do if you don't confess your love? If you hold hands once, you will know where the relationship between you is.
Many men have a wrong understanding of WeChat, thinking that it is just a dating software, and the girls in it are very casual. First change your misconceptions and think about what to say and what not to say before chatting. Don't treat chatting with girls as passing time, you should communicate carefully.
